I have known my best guy friend for 2 1/2 years!. and in the last past 4 months.. i started likeing him... one of my old co-workers had sent him a message... telling him i liked him more then friends.. a few weeks go by and he does say ne thing.. then he bring sit up and i say i DID like him not that I DO! like him.. and ever since then things have been happening... He has called me singing to me.. weird *picking* on me.... convos about how much he loves me and how he is glad he knows of my existence....and him saying he is gonna cry when I leave for college.. and tons more... but I am a shy shy SHY girl.. and idk.. he sorta likes someone else at the moment but thats going no where.. one of my friends he used to date still likes him.. and idk im so lost.. he likes when ppl tell him to his face they like him.. well i cant :( im way to shy and wouldnt know what to say ne one have ne advice for me? I am 18 *almost 19* and9 he is almost 17 years old :( PLZ I NEED HELP! im leaving in Jan :(
2006-12-12 20:21:04 · 3 answers · asked by Pammy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When he calls me we are on the phone for more then an hour with him just singing songs to me... when he is haveing issues with this girl he used to like.. he called me crying.. just looking for someone to talk to..when in church.. and we are praying he does something to mess with me in a weird way like poking or something.. calls me just to see wuts up....he told me i have to have a new years party... weird.... told *me* to stop flirting with him.. a while bak...we dont talk much online but when we do its short :( but nice.. he sometimes comes behind me and covers mines eyes doing the *guess who* thing... tried to jump on my bak one time.. hmm... ever since we had the convo about me *not* :( *but i do* like him... we hve tlaked more.... Usually if he likes someone he tells them.. do u think he likes me and is to afraid to say it?.. even though he tells everyone.. or do u think he is just being a friend? I really need help.. like him but i dont wanna tell him if its not both way :(
2006-12-12 20:51:22 · update #1
That's good you get to be friends with guys because sometimes,other people make up their own groups called cliques. So here's some advise. Tell you guy friend how you feel. I had a friend she started liking this guy and starting to have a crush on him-but that didn't end their friendship. She wasen't shy enough to express her own feelings. Don't be scared on what you're guy friend would say. If he wants to break with you and you didn't want to, tell him all the fun times you did. Sometimes, I know boys or guys can REALLY understand girls.
2006-12-12 20:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by Maya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, did he asked you if you love him? If noy, dont be in a hurry. Just be yourself and treat him just like before. Youi do not expect love to grow overnight. Let it take its course. Who konws? When you leave for college, he'll miss you like hell.
2006-12-12 20:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by mared 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah tell him how you feel. we guys can't read minds
2006-12-12 20:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by Julian J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋