after getting married?The wife is not supposed to feel bad about it,is it right if he say so.I mean is it fine/normal for a husband to watch porn on his computer while his wife is doing his household work?He doesnot watch it with her even if she asks him (she can tolerate it if he involves her with him but she doesnot like him doing it secretly without her knowledge)
Isn't it disrespectful on his part towards her?
The husband says that he loves his wife the most but its wrong on her part to feel bad on such activities of his and should think sensibly that guys are like this only.........he just look at other girls and enjoys it but he just loves his wife only.
What is there to think sensibly in this case.what should a wife do about it?
What if its the other way around-a wife watching nude guys n all,how would he feel about it?
2006-12-12 20:11:14 · 7 answers · asked by xyz_111 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The wife used to love,trust and respect her husband very much but becase of all such things she is losing her love,trust and respect for him and its ruining their marriage....what can she do to save her marriage.
2006-12-12 20:19:17 · update #1
I understand how you feel...but u should understand teh root cause...porn viewing is an addiction like smoking or drinking...he must be indulging in it and hmself not very happy about it...he does it cos he wants to kill time or just needs a momentary high...watching porn affects his mental peace,concentration and he is also equally unhappy about it as you are but cant get over it. For sure he is commited towards you else he wouldnt have let u know it in first place...its just a habit...regarding strip clubs....u will have to give him some space..before being ur husband is a guy with his own likes and dislikes as long as he does nto indulge with the strippers u should be ok with it....after all men will be men and just by watchign women in strip club they dont become cheaters...trust me he really loves u..strip club is just a means of entertainment...unless he visits them on regular basis...sometimes is fairly ok
2006-12-12 20:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by siddharthmalhotra2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-19 18:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a reason why a husband should satisfy HIMSELF by watchin porn and by going to stip clubs, why get married if you know your wife won't satisfy you enough. All of these things are wrong and disrespectful, especially if you have the nerve not to include your wife in all of this. I dont care wether you are a guy and apparently have some "special" needs, of which I don't know came from. It is no excuse. Just try spend more time with your wife get to know what makes her happy and what gives her pleasure instead of focusing on YOUR selfish needs.
2006-12-12 20:32:16 · answer #3 · answered by beyonce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"MEN" don't do that to their wives..."boys" do. He cheated on you and you let him back in...and you wonder why "he didn't learn his lesson" ???? Think about that. He didn't learn his lesson because he never really was taught his lesson. And the fact he is 6 hours plus in a stripclub, just lapdances?...I don't think so!!! The guy you seem to want to claim at this time is a cheat and lie. He is disrespecting you to the very core. Kick him to the curb...and file for divorce, since he broke the marriage vow by cheating...and then move on in life. No sense staying stuck in this nightmare. He isn't going to change, and no matter how hurt or angry you are isn't going to change him either...he's selfish. Sorry to be so blunt...but you need to gain some self-respect and realize your worth more than he is capable of giving you. Please take care, and I wish you the best!!!
2016-05-23 17:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by Lizabeth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if its ok if your wife too does the same thing and you are happy! If your wife does the same thing how would you feel?? If you are happy with it then surely clubs/pubs are all open....
2006-12-12 21:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by syd_guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your life, it's between the two of you what happens and why it happens. Talk to your wife/husband.
2006-12-12 20:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know what is normal because u want your speace righ and man do that all the time u know.... That is ok.
2006-12-12 20:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋