I broke a promise to one of my best friends. I promised I would never hurt her. we grew up together. She cried with me when my best friend was killed. I helped her out of bad boyfriends and abusive family problems. Then I met my fiancee.
She was afraid of the relationship I had with my friend, and told me that it made her think she wasn't good enough. I told my friend that she just needed some time, and it would be best if we didn't talk for a while. she cried so hard. she said, "if it makes you happy, then that's all I can hope for. I'll do whatever you ask me to."
It's been over three months. I need to apologize. I can't find the words. I can't gather the strength. I feel so awful. What should I do?
2006-12-12 20:06:47 · 5 answers · asked by Chris C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
u said she was their and cried with u thru the hard times right???? if that is true then u are not going to get rid of her that easily hun!!!!! their is no wrong or right way to say "SORRY" u just have to do it and see how she responds to it....if she doesnt respond to it very well then u should just give her more time...she will come around :D good luck :)
2006-12-12 20:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by →Sasha← 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its is very painfull to lose a friend and especially one you have so much history with.You will have to rekindle one of the fun things you used to do together and invite her along. This is a tough situation because these are two different women you love with varying intensities and you have to tread carefully so that you can jeopardize anything again.You should make it clear for both of them that you need that you need to get a long for your ahppiness and assure your wife that you love her too much to destroy it. I am sure your friend knows you too well and can spot an honest apology.Make it as honest as possible.
2006-12-12 20:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say it say i am sorry and i never want to hurt u or i mean that and ur my best friend and i miss u and need u back to my life
2006-12-12 20:23:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flowers, a short heart-felt note, a nice girft in the post (something ur pretty sure she'd like) shld do ze trick
2006-12-12 20:16:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she knows u r honest and will forgive you, be happy
2006-12-12 21:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋