hi there.I have been having problems with my boyfriend for the past two months .everything was going on well then he got a job promotion and now he is too busy for me.he never calls or sms as he used tonor even send emails. Some few weeks ago i was experiencing some financial problems but when i asked him for help by sms hr didn't reply. What should i do I gnore him? Coz it hurts like hell.
2006-12-12 19:57:52 · 12 answers · asked by n4everluvu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like maybe he's done with you but doesn't know how to tell you or doesn't want to hurt you or both.
Or maybe his recent promotion means he has more responsibility and therefore less free time at work to be calling or messaging you. After all, they pay him to do work for them, not spend work time chatting with you. As to the money aspect... Never Ever borrow money from or lend money to a boyfriend or girlfriend. It just looks bad. If it's just a case of forgetting a purse or wallet then okay but otherwise keep the financials separate until after you're married or else you'll wind up on Judge Judy or another similar TV show.
Whatever the problem may be, you need to sit down with him and talk it out, let him know how you feel and listen to how he feels. Good luck, I hope things work out for you.
2006-12-12 20:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by Simp1eman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course your boyfriend has no time for you, He is a rocket scientist. He is too busy trying to solve the complex problems of life. He does not have time to watch reality shows or the Montel's show. On the serious side. I would ignore him and hope he would come back around but if he doesn't find a new man or get busy with your life. Believe me, life is too short to let one person stop the show!
2006-12-12 20:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a sugar daddy to help you through the tough times
2006-12-12 20:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find another boyfriend he is either giving you up for another woman or his job. You can't win Sorry
2006-12-12 20:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by desk49 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's highly possible that he doesn't love you anymore. There's no such thing as busy when it comes to spending time with a person you love.
2006-12-12 20:00:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs Brandon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him treat you like that. He knows you well enough to know he's hurting you, and you do not deserve to put up with his crap. Tell him to shape up or shove off--men are easy to replace.
2006-12-12 20:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by ms dont panic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really sucks. You obviously still care about him but maybe you should ditch him before you get ditched.
2006-12-12 20:16:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet up and ask him wot is going on. if he says nothing then try and find out its the best way x
2006-12-12 20:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by Claire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hurt means you are in the WRONG place. Move on girl!!
2006-12-12 20:00:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
either ditch him now, or talk to him and see if he wants to make more time for you.
either way you can't keep going like you are going
2006-12-12 19:59:44 · answer #10 · answered by angie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋