2006-12-12 19:53:05 · 22 answers · asked by sanjay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi,
Accepting your orientation is not easy. Accepting the fact that you are different from others, and that is the thing that is always going to remain with you, that you cannot change - is a difficult pill to swallow. It would be difficult for Suresh to believe, that his friend is in love with him, not a woman. Even making him, understand the concept of homosexuality will be a tough task. Because, when it comes to homosexuality, it is always considered as a deviant behaviour. Nobody is able to understand about the mindset of a gay person, and his emotional needs. Hope your friend Suresh understands you.
Good Luck & God Bless
2006-12-12 20:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the solution is to have a arranged marriage to a girl. and make a compromise with your feelings towards suresh. no doubt he is a nice person and having many good qualities. you can keep him as a best friend. absolutely no need to marry or tell him anything.
its all for your own good.
if you marry him you wont be able to become a father, this and many problems u will have if you go against law of nature which all animals have to follow including man.
2006-12-13 16:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by friends m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u really love suresh so u shud not tell this 2 him. i think he might also has feeling for u but as a friend. so if u do't want 2 let him leave u so keep burry ur feelings & go through with the friend&friendship
2006-12-14 02:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by vinni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing more this question is hard to answer. You can tell him how you feel but if he's not into other males it could go badly. But then if you don't tell him and he is, you could be missing out on something beautiful ya know? Does he show any signs of being interested in you? If he does then I would say talk to him about it... Not flat out tell him you love him or that your interested, just bring up the subject of two males being together and see how he reacts and what his feelings are about it. Good Luck.
2006-12-13 04:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by perfectiest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being 2 males have affection, love as a friends but ur improper question takes to another meaning kindly clarify ur question properly.
2006-12-13 04:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should ask him to go hang out with u and ask him how he feels about u and if he say he likes u as a friend then don't tell him u love him because if u did that u will ruin a friendship.
Just follow your heart.
2006-12-13 03:57:34 · answer #6 · answered by MFC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what! being a male how cud love another male man.? r u crazy? its not love , its good friendship. dont u know which is love and which is friendship? i have a doubt, if ur lover is a male, then who r u? u r not female, then r u shemale?1st prove urself a male , then ask this kind of questions here.
2006-12-13 04:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by mam 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am assuming u to be an indian.....so its better u both first shift to a place where this is legal........and then u can impress him with ur charms and express ur love to him over there.
2006-12-13 04:28:40 · answer #8 · answered by ShyTahir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess it would be a bad idea to tell him how you feel specially if he has trusted you as a friend already and if he is not open in that kind of relationship, but if you would like to take the risk of losing him go and tell him if telling him would make you feel ok
2006-12-13 04:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by flannan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey what are you talking ist;s silly but anyways i can say that its not love its a great friendship between you and ur frnd..... ur giving it a wrong meaning to ur friendship...... anyways u express it.. here sum of my frnds say to such kinda frndship as : sanjay is a fan of suresh.... got it...
anyways liked ur frndship carry on with that .....
2006-12-13 11:38:46 · answer #10 · answered by charming_girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋