No , some people are destined to walk this life alone , this way they learn other aspects of love for it does not exist in a singular relationship with another , but is often completed there
2006-12-12 20:01:03
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answered by simon c 2
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Yes, I definitely believe we all have someone out there who was made just for us - our true soul mate.
Maybe I'm just a hopeless romantic, but if we don't have that, we might as well all be real animals & mate with whatever comes along.
2006-12-12 19:40:33
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answered by funkychick 2
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Yes just like every little kid can grow up to be whatever they want.
2006-12-12 19:52:23
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answered by lalagrrrl 2
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Yes. However, people often don't find The One person that God has picked out for them. That doesn't mean they don't find someone who will do, or who is nice and perfectly fine.
If you want to find someone nice or "good enough," then just do what everybody else does, like go to bars, or use dating websites, or speed-dating, or word of mouth from friends, etc.
But, if you want to find The One, it will take extreme faith and extreme obedience to God's rules about sexual holiness. In other words, no sleeping around. Think of it as a "fast" of sorts. Instead of fasting FOOD, you are fasting illicit sex.
Look at it this way, if a person REALLY HAS FAITH that God is INTERESTED in and CAPABLE OF bringing you The One mate He has picked out for you (from before you were even born...), then you won't want to CHEAT ON THAT PERSON IN ADVANCE of being introduced to them by God's hand.
A lot of people wrongly believe that God doesn't WANT us to hook up with our Perfect Mate, like He's trying to withhold blessings or punish us for something. That ties God's hands because God ONLY responds to FAITH, and that attitude is not faith.
A lot of people also wrongly believe that God doesn't want us to have good sex lives. That is also untrue. GOD INVENTED SEX (I know the devil likes to pretend HE did, but the devil is a liar). All the devil can do is take something God created and PERVERT / TWIST it. God does want people to have good sex lives, but they have to do it HIS WAY if they want good sex with The One Perfect Mate God would bring them (if they exercised their faith).
One way to demonstrate to God that you have FAITH about this issue in your life is to avoid sexual involvement with anyone until God brings you Your Perfect Mate. By being obedient, you are demonstrating to God (and the devil) that you DON'T NEED TO DO IT YOUR WAY, that you believe God can be trusted to bring you The One in His Perfect Timing.
1. Acknowledge things aren't going well in this area of your life.
2. Relinquish control in this area of your life and stop doing things with your own wits and brain power and efforts.
3. Pray to God that HE bring you your Perfect Mate. WRITE THE DATE AND TIME IN YOUR DIARY FOR FUTURE REFERENCE.
4. Apologize to God for doing things your way in this arena of your life previously.
5. Demonstrate your faith that God can and will do it by being obedient to His Word regarding sexual cleanliness.
6. If you screw up, ask for forgiveness and get right back on "the wagon."
7. Plan in advance to give God the glory and credit when He finally does bring you your Perfect Mate. That means, when it happens, be sure and tell people it was God, not your masterful tactics in romance...
8. Do the SNOOPY DANCE...IN ADVANCE! This shows God, the Angels, Heaven AND the devil that you are believing and rejoicing BEFORE IT OCCURS (that's faith).
GOD only responds to FAITH. In fact, God finds it hard to RESIST faith and obedience. He CAN'T STAND NOT TO BRING YOU YOUR PRAYER WHEN YOU EXERCISE FAITH AND OBEDIENCE. He says to Himself, "Look at Billy, he 'gets it' now, he's really serious, he believes without seeing (that will be counted to him as righteousness), he is even rejoicing IN ADVANCE, I will work behind the scenes to bring him his Perfect Mate."
Now, while God is working on that for you...GET YOURSELF READY. Do you need to work out? Do you need to improve your job prospects? Do you need to increase your education? Do you need to improve your wardrobe? Do you need dental work? Do you need to do any other types of self improvement? Then you should be busy doing that stuff...while God is doing HIS thing behind the scenes. Doing this stuff is ALSO showing your faith that God will do as you asked in your prayer. That's because since you really believe God is going to act on your behalf you realize the need to be the best mate YOU can be when The One shows up!
Now get going... Sweet Stuff!
2006-12-12 22:30:52
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answered by MandaPanda 2
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