Women? Where are you more attracted by? Inside/outside?

Question

At this very moment, I am totally crazy of a girl. Normally, I am more attracted by the feminime part of the women but she is even more manly compared to me.
I never felt like this, I can't sleep, am having a supergood humor and every minute I have to think about her. Sunday we are going to the cinema, and we met twice now.

My Q is; did you ever felt the same, while you (thought to) be more attracted by other women?

What I ment to say is that I never thought to like somebody whoms interests and so are very similair with mine. We aren't feminime both.
But I love her cause of her personality. I really like her.

Answer 1

Seems that she has a catchy personality that you dig! When we are young we may initially be attracted to the outside of a person, but if we get to know someone's personality we may start seeing them in a different light cuz something of their personality overrules. ~Like their humor, their heart, or they are easy to be around, etc! Happy to hear that you are feeling so "giddy" :-) and happy around this gal that likes to spend time with you, too! Best Wishes! :)))!

-sorry! should've proof-read that before submitting! Ouch on the typo's etc! :(* Don't feel bad about this guy calling your gal a that name! {hug} Some of us gals w/o make-up & hair done don't look all too dolled up or feminine. But then again, that's probably why you won't see us or them w/o some of their make-up on to accentuate some features, etc. Wait a sec, I don't really wear make-up much of the time anymore! But I have an extremely petite & feminine, hour-glass figure soo, there's no mistaking my gender, anyways! :)*
Have a good time! :)

If you are insulting his girl by calling her a butch, I hope something doesn't have to happen to your appearance sometime down the road to make you have empathy & sensitivity for other's appearances. No one can really choose how they are gonna look when they are born so why are they blamed? And some people don't have access to better themselves as others. Or stress, etc, can reek havok on someone. I just watched Al Gore's "Inconvenient Truth" and he was talking about how it was a hard blow to lose the election especially when he "strongly disagreed with the courts decision, but accepts it." His appearance took on a BIG change after that, too. I felt compassion & felt bad for him as it looked like he had gone thru hard times. I know some people are intolerant of others that look "all jacked up" on the outside. I don't know why they wouldn't just be thankful they are not & feel sorry for & be nice to those that are. No one says that because you are nice to them, it means you have to date them or sleep with them. They'll maybe find someone I guess you'd say is more of what you think is on their level or who doesn't mind not being on their level. And everyone has the right to be loved. And why criticize someone for their choice of who they like? That's just one less person or two less people out in the sea looking for someone! :)))!


Hey fan, androgenous is an adjective meaning : pertaining to the production of or tending to produce male offspring! :)

Answer 2

Sorry, having a little trouble understanding your question, but I will try.

If our first meeting is in real life as opposed to online, then it is the outside that attracts me first. What I find out about them from that point on (personality wise) either makes the outside more attractive to me or it makes it ugly to me. Depends on the personality.

If our first meeting is in cyberspace, and we correspond/chat online for awhile before meeting, and I find that I really click with them and look forward all the time to chatting more with them and someday finally meeting them, then it is the inside which I find most attractive. But when we meet in real life, if the outside is a really big turnoff to me, then the whole thing;s shot to hell.


Looks matter.

Sounds like you have yourself a butch on your hands. I adore butches. Have fun, doll.

Answer 3

While the persons looks are good, how the person's personality is, is better. It's all what's in the inside thats where your true feelings are for each other. It's good to be crazy for her..... take a chance ya'll might be a perfect match. Good Luck!!!

Answer 4

im more attracted to the inside of the women, i like a girl's personality because it shows how beautiful they are on the inside and outside. i ain't tryin to be stuck with someone who's attractive on the outside but has the ugliest attitude on the inside

Answer 5

Personality is extremely important. I am more butch, and when femme woman meet me, they aren't tearing off my clothes. :-)

BUT!!!!! when they hang around me and get to know me....well that all changes and they turn into animals!

The moral is yeah looks count for something. But having a great personality is more important.

Answer 6

I usually fall for more girly looking women, but I have had crushes on androgenous looking women before (meaning they look like opposite gender). There's this woman at my work who has short spiky hair and is really smart and funny. I don't want to do work flings though, so I will never verbally tell her I like her.

Good luck w/ your date. ;) winks

Answer 7

One guy's meat is yet another mans poison. with reference for your heritage. courting actually black adult males does no longer propose that they are going to understand your heritage . i'm no longer constructive what part of the international you're from yet i'm a British born Nigerian living in Lagos and London. I actually have dated some west Indian women who do no longer understand the Nigeria subculture. In Nigeria you've many alternative cultures and languages . A Hausa human being would locate it complicated to understand a Ibo human being for example. Then is faith. Muslims no longer information Christians . i imagine being interested on your companion is major also being waiting to understand one yet another is likewise major yet does no longer needed want to be same race relationships to archive this. i'd under no circumstances date a black lady only because she became black and we did no longer have some thing in hardship-free. I also would not say no to courting a white human being only because she became white even even with the truth that we've lots in hardship-free. My suggestion to you is date whoever you have an interest in and get alongside with in spite of colour. this is extremely risky to pre decide someone only on colour. And an additional desirable element human beings are those with there own unique personalities.

Answer 8

inside

Answer 9

a femme can be with another femme just as a stud/butch can be with another stud/butch. it just isn't as common as a femme/ stud relationship