i have a friend who is always ranting about he wants to leave his girlfriend and i give him advice and he ignores it..now i find out he is talking **** behind my back should i send all my yahoo archives containing our conversations to his girl or leave things alone and not be spitefull and try for revenge.
2006-12-12 18:17:36 · 17 answers · asked by beavis463 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I will just ignore it. BUT I will sure let him know you have the "evidence."
Show it to the dude, let him know his stake is high and let him make up his mind whether he wants to continue to act like a stupid chic or stop completely. Make him deal by correcting all the stuff he has been saying about you to those ppl or else.
2006-12-12 18:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone person, men and women, acts differently with their squeeze than they do with anyone else, and it always puts a strain on freindships when someone has something different going on in their lovelife. Whether it's someone new or the end of something old. If you care about this freind, just let him vent and try to understand that he probably doesn't know what the right thing to do is, if you can just listen and be supportive he will work it out in his own way, and there will be no blame to lay if things don't work out the way he wants them to. A good listener is a good freind.
2006-12-12 18:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by barbara b 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I would leave it alone. You don't want to sink to his level. Just realize that he is not someone you can trust and don't depend on him to keep anything a secret. It is your choice if you want to continue your friendship or not. If you do, you also have the option of confronting him about his two sided behavior, but that is another thing only you can decide. I hope everything works out.
2006-12-12 18:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by cassie j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you learned a lesson all on your own it happens all the time with chicks you give advise time and time again they seems to listen and wants to take it but then don't and they work out things and your the bad guy....never give people advise on relationships unless abuse is involved or they have moved on ...and divorced.. tell him that you heard he was talking **** about you and if he wants you still have the entire archive you could send it to anyone....in case he forgot what you talked about..i bet he says sorry ...remind him he asked you for an opinion..what he did with it was never up to you...
2006-12-12 18:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by Carol J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget the spite. Spite never got anyone anywhere.
He doesn't sound like a very good friend, though, to anyone. I can't stand gossipers myself. So he talks bad about his girlfriend to you and talks bad about you to other people. He just doesn't seem like a loyal person to me.
If somebody - anybody - starts talking **** about someone who's not in the room, I'll say something like: I'm sorry. If you have something to complain about to that person, they're the one you should be telling.
Cheers.
2006-12-12 18:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hun if i was u i would send her alll of that!!! he had no dam reason to talk S.H.I.T behind ur back....and i dont see that as revenge...ur only telling and showing her the truth,,,he on the other hand is just a fake friend...that u dont need all that...all he cares about is him and his girl and let's admitt it ,,,,he just loves the hard life because a guy will not stay with a girl if he really wants to leave her :) good luck
2006-12-12 20:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by →Sasha← 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Beavis, Don't lower yourself down to his size. Leave things alone,and find a new friend.
Clowmy
2006-12-12 18:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That would depend, is it her he is talking sh** to about you? If so, then I would send them to her and she can know for herself. If it is just bs with other guys, I would leave it alone because he will get whats coming to him in the end. What goes around comes around you know, there are no exceptions.
2006-12-12 18:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by lisads1973 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it go Beavis. I would not give this guy anymore advice. He's not a very good friend if he's talking behind your back.
2006-12-12 18:37:36 · answer #9 · answered by autumn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him b*t*h about his girlfriend,you just sit back and listen to what he got to say and don't say nothing about it. Especially if his is not taking your advice...........so just listen. Stay out the middle and don't be spiteful nothing good can come out of that. Oh pray about the situation!
2006-12-12 18:25:02 · answer #10 · answered by HOOD RAT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋