We shared a very sweet relation.We both loved each other so much n he used to be extremely caring n emothional. But since the day he introduced me to his 3 close friends,he started saying he cant marry me became rude to me.but before tht he told me tht his friends told him tht im extremely beautiful. Their gf's r not gudluking. And my bf is very jealous types n 6months back he saw me dancing with a handsom guy. After tht he never talked to me on ph but sent abusive n disrespectful mesgs. He never used to like my talking to any boy.last month i got a mesg tht im a cheap gurl n im frustrated thts y i go after guys. He asked me tht i had gone on date with whom n i kept silent coz i had fever tht day n was at home. I never contacted him all these months but replied few mesgs. This time i didnt reply even n he mesgd tht he feels like slaping n abusing me coz im so cheap. On15nov 2 mesgs were sent bychance to him n he sent a mesg tht i shud b careful otherwise he will break my hands.
2006-12-12 17:59:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
on 2nd dec i got 2 mesgs. i was going in alone in my car n i got a mesg tht where was i going with my bf? then i got a forward mesg-" i may be silent but tht doesnt mean im dead. deep in my heart i remember n care for u. after tht no mesg till today. NOW I WANA ASK, HAS HE GIVEN A SWEET END TO EVERYTHING OR HE WILL CONTACT SOM DAY MAY BE HIS OUTGOING IS BARRED ??MY BIRHTDAY IS NEAR. WILL HE WISH ME??? OR I WILL CRY ON MY BIRHTDAY COZ I LOVE HIM N CANT BE HAPPY WITHOUT HIS WISHES
2006-12-12 18:00:06 · update #1
Sweets, that's not love, so stop selling yourself short.
Stop all contact, and erase him from your memory.
Anything that involves pain and humiliation is not love. It's control.
Change your life TODAY.
Happy Birthday Gorgeous.
2006-12-12 18:07:06 · answer #1 · answered by rynay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is seek out a counselor who specailizes in co-dependency, he is what is known as a sociopath. And as a co- dependant you will probably be drawn to this sort of man over and over again.
Beleive me you do not deserve this! And he may need help but honey so do!
I am giving you this advice with the most helpful intentions and I hope for your own sanity you heed my advice. You will be in my prayers good luck to you and Happy Birthday!!!
2006-12-12 18:20:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um mm. i think u said this guy threatened your life or abuse and you are crying because you want him back or to wish u a happy birth day. You need pro. help
Happy birth day soon hope its a good careful what you wish for.
p.s His friends don't like you. He likes his friends better than you
if he loved you his friends wouldn't matter he must of just been after the velvet pocket
2006-12-12 18:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by Bruce S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand how you sense and that i sympathize with you. this is not common to fix a damaged heart and ahrder nonetheless to pass on. You fell in love with a guy and coz of his jealous rages you drifted aside. **** occurs. Even to the finest of persons. Even to the finest relationships. Now,what i'm frightened about is his violent messages. the guy you want or loved has violent tendencies and that is a ordinary DEAL. I understand you loving him and being concerned for him and all yet,my female,it really is scary to imagine that once the going receives demanding your BF will demanding you up. imagine of it this manner. You were a princess and your prince became grew to grow to be right into a frog,now you ought to watch for a lengthy time period for him to come again. Now it really is time that you'll pass on and word what the international has to provide. you aren't to any extent further affordable! in case you date out different adult males once you're unmarried then you actually are defintely no longer a tramp. He would imagine in the different case coz he's a loser and can't wrestle for his love yet nonetheless he's a loser. He won't be able to go round accusing you and telling you he is going to harm you. pass on.cry a bucket,cry a river create a waterfall yet imagine demanding of going back to him. you're a sweet female and also you desrve to locate your genuine prince and also you aren't to any extent further affordable in case you're trying. Now if you're demanding headed like maximum ladies then go back to him yet study martial arts coz he will easily harm you,the indicators are all written on your wall. satisfied birthday! chief! LOL
2016-10-18 05:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be obsessively possessive of you. He cannot afford to see you with anyone else. He became jealous after his friends appreciated you. Your dancing with someone else has infuriated him.
Try to find a common ground to meet him and express your feelings to him. This is going to be difficult. Since you are serious about him, you will have to take the initiative. All the best to you.
2006-12-12 18:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, for your own good, get over him.
see someone, ask for help, you need to, right now.
he is a bastard, treating you like that,
if anything else happens, honestly if i was you,
i'd go to the police.
he is a freak.
& has no right to do any of that to you.
see someone that can help.
he is the one that is cheap & frustrated.
2006-12-12 18:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by asphyxia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Three things -
#1Give me a break!
#2Get serious!
#3Grow up!
This guy has threatened you, mentally & emotionally abused you, and is the jealous type. Dump him!!!
2006-12-12 18:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by Joycee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is an ABUSIVE ASSHOLE. Get rid of him and find someone else!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-12 18:03:34 · answer #8 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
too long, sorry, not interested
2006-12-12 18:06:39 · answer #9 · answered by RZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you hun?
2006-12-12 18:01:54 · answer #10 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋