2006-12-12 16:56:41 · 17 answers · asked by babyshells 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if the situation really bugs you, you should confront the person. if it's not a big deal, leave the situation as is. there's no need to make things worse.
2006-12-12 17:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by apple bee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends if you thought you liked the person doing it.
If your not that bothered about that person just ignore it.
If you thought they were your friend, confront them. It may be they have been taken out of context or it could be completely wrong. When this kind of thing goes on it can tend to get a bit like Chinese whispers!
If you do care about this friend it will probably make you feel better to get it off your chest too. You don't have to have a huge argument - just tell them what you have been told and that it has upset you.
If they are a friend, i m sure you will sort it out. Everybody says something about their friends at some point, that's just life unfortunately!
2006-12-12 22:02:00 · answer #2 · answered by peachy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya!!! girls are the most bitchest of them all......if it is a girl then just ignore it!!! the person who told you,was probably bitching about you 2!!!! trust me i have the same problems at work with some of the girls!!!! one will ***** to me about the other,then the 3rd one bitches about both of them!!! i just speak my mind and tell people what i think of them to their face!!!!!.....if i was you i'd seriously let it go in one ear and out the other!!!! at least if their bitching you then their leaving some other poor bugger alone!!!!! who needs enemies when you have friends like that? x
2006-12-12 18:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by chick07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask that person straight up what they said! I would tell that person that if they have something to say about me then say it to my face. Don't be a wimp and say it to others. I will get to the situation and either rectify it if I am wrong or tell him or her to stop talking their garbage and not to cross me again! I would make it loud and clear for all to hear. Who's humiliated now?
2006-12-12 22:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it, we all do it in some way. However, if it is causing problems or creating rumours them confront this person calmly, tell them what you have heard and ask why they are doing this. Try to sort it out amicably.
2006-12-12 18:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by benn26k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it. You have bitched about other people, right. It's human nature. You can't get along with everyone! I know its tough, but oh well. You will be the bigger person.
2006-12-12 16:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by Robin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who you KNOW will tell her what you say then say the following,
"I know she has been talking about me and it's not very nice for me. . but being a little hurt is a small price to pay to find out what someone is really like"
2006-12-12 21:16:21 · answer #7 · answered by DavidP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rather than lose your temper just go to the person and ask why they said it. if the reason aint gud enough then just tell them that you dont want to be friends with them anymore. if you find the reason satisfactory then forgive and forget. xx
2006-12-12 22:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it back babyshell. Lowering yourself to someone elses level isn't big or clever, but it will give you a great deal of satisfaction!!
2006-12-12 16:59:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally... I would have to front them out face to face... and let them know they're welcome to let me know what kind of problem they are having with me... I hate people that talk behind others backs... especially when their in my presence they act like there ain't nothin' wrong... Just ask them!!!!
2006-12-12 17:06:52 · answer #10 · answered by Sandy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋