What can i do? girls and guys help me please?

Question

There is this girl I like We are both sophmores and have known each other for months and we both know we like eachother. She is mostly "anti touch " she was when I met her and for alittle while after. but we have grown closer and i really like her, but I think she will not like to hold hands or hug. I giver her a hug once in a long while anyway but that is it. even though I am a more touchy kind of guy. and I mean with everybody I always love hugs.so wht do you think I should do ? and I want mature answers, and please do not mention sex I am saveing that for marraige.

Answer 1

Well, this is not easy. If you've been observant over the years (most people aren't, they just stumble along through life without knowing what hit them!), then you know there are ALL kinds of people, and I'm not referring to physical types either. It will take more than a few months' knowing someone before you can begin to say you really know what makes them tick. Actually, it usually takes a lifetime to do so! So don't worry if you can't figure out what's going on. Just continue getting to know her better, observing her under different situations. (If you only see her in one setting--school, for instance--you are not getting to know the whole person.) If you're saving yourself for marriage then you obviously appreciate how serious a step it is. Don't ruin it by trying to rush things! Concentrate on other things as well--your education, for instance; you'll need a good education in order to get a half decent job to support her when and if you eventually do get married.

Answer 2

I guess shes very protective of herself. Though your very touchy, she doesnt have to be. Some girls do not show their true feelings, maybe shes hiding it. Playing hard to get...maybe. Just give her time, hopefully she'll show her true feelings soon. Good luck!

Answer 3

she needs more time so be patient & somehow you managed to make your avatar really cute good job.