There was a rumor going around school that one of my closest friends was pregnat. I was very helpful to her and always was saying I was there for her. She said she wasn't and after 2 weeks most people dropped it. This happend almost 2 months ago. But last week my mom told me that she was talking to my friends mom (because they are friends 2). My friends mom said that my friend was pregnat and she got into all this with my mom and so my mom told me. I then told my friend and she was so scard almost like it was true and she didn't want her mom to tell anyone. She still says that it isnt true. but lately she has been eating more and getting heavier. she still says it isn't tru though and she has not been the type of girl to gain weight she has always been in shape and always watching her wait. Should I talk to her about it. Or should I just wait and see if she talks to me. And what if she is pregnat. How should I act around her. Will everything be ok.Tell me what you think cuz Im freakin!
2006-12-12 15:43:36 · 17 answers · asked by Sarah J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
1) Use spell checks!
2) Do nothing. It's not your problem. If she asks for your help, then help as she requests, but don't jump to any conclusions.
3) Throw her a Baby Shower, if it's true.
4) If it's true, learn from her experience. Use contraceptives, or planned parenthood methods, so you don't have the same experience.
5) Take a breath & relax, exhale, repeat as often as necessary.
6) Stop "freakin!" cuz I said so.....
2006-12-12 15:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt freak out. if your friend is pregnant then she needs you to be strong. imagine how terrified she is? she feels that she has to hide it from everyone, just ler her know that you are there for her and that no matter what happens she will have your suppor. you should pressure your friend into telling you because that will only make her feel worse, instead just stand by her side. be positive and help her release the stress that he whole situation is causing.
BUT you dont exactly know for sure if she is pregnant, so again dont freak out. You might be worried over nothing. she might be going through some other drama, which is why she has put on some weight.
in either situation you should not feel that your friend doesnt trust you. she is just going through a hard time right now. the best you can do is be there and be supportive.
2006-12-12 15:51:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is a personal thing that she may or may not be dealing with. when and if she's ready let her come to you. she may not be pregnant and could be going through something else all together. and if she is pregnant, she may not know what's she's going to do. what ever she is going through just make sure she knows that she can count on you to be her friend no matter what and leave it at that. a true friend does not judge a friend in their time of need. let her be right now and don't treat her any different than you have before the rumors. she was your friend before the rumors and should be after them. people are going to talk no matter what's going on and you should neer let it rule your life.
2006-12-12 16:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by NoDeal21 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rumors happened but if she has told her mom and she told your mom it is probably true and theres nothing wrong with it because its part of life and If i was you i would meet her at a very private place so you can talk to her with out anyone overhearing but eventually people will find out and that will be the hardest time because she will get many opinionated thoughts and alot of question tough ones like whose the father thats the hardest so you need to be there for here.Good luck I hope everthing turns out ok.
2006-12-12 15:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer announcing shes informed youthful although the probabilities of her try showing constructive is rather low pondering she also had a mild era already, and her age. on the age she would have already had a mis-carriage. The uterus isn't completely waiting to keep a touch one turning out to be in her at that level. yet when shes nonetheless frightened tell her to look in the community telephone e book there are alot of components for your chum with youngster being pregnant and such
2016-10-18 05:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by valda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her. She is probably not comfortable with the idea yet. At some point, she will have to face facts if she is pregnant and she is going to go thru a very hard time. Don't push her if she doesn't want to talk about it. She will in time and she will need you.
2006-12-12 15:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there for her, she's still the same person you became friends with it's just she's dealing with a very heavy issue right now and may not be ready to talk.
if she is pregnant, it's up to her what she wants to do most importantly though she'll need people around her she can trust and that will support her.
2006-12-12 15:47:42 · answer #7 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bring it up with her anymore. If she wants you to know anything, she'll tell you. Maybe she is pregnant and planning on giving the baby away, that's why she doesn't want anyone to know she's pregnant. If she is pregnant you still act the same way you always did towards her, she's still the same person.
2006-12-12 15:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont keep bothering her about it, she will tell you when she is ready to. Maybe its to much stress on her and she feels everyone will judge her for it. Just be there for her and just be the same as you normally are around her dont try to act different. there is nohting to worry about nothing will change and everything will be fine. Good luck sweetie
2006-12-12 15:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i think that you need to talk to someone and not let your friend down but at the same time you need to let ur feelings out to cause it is going to hurt you in the long run if you dont talk to some one about what u are feeling
2006-12-12 15:58:07 · answer #10 · answered by cutiepie102 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋