my boyfriend and i have had sex before a couple of times.he doesnt last very long at all.he told me that when he was masturbating last night he lasted for 2 hours.he has not done this with me.is this normal?my boyfriend is almost 21
2006-12-12 15:36:39 · 8 answers · asked by littlebic87 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
You are obviously doing all the right things for him.
If you aren't getting the pleasure you need, he needs to learn how to do it so you are satisfied. Show him how to touch you, and have him do oral too. Once you are near the point you need to be, then have him do intercourse.
Enjoy and be safe.
2006-12-12 15:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
According to Kinsey, 5 minutes is above average. If he lasts 15-20 minutes with you on top, then it suggests if he relaxes, breaths slower, etc, he lasts longer. if 20 minutes isn't long enough, frankly, i'd look at other aspects. Also be aware that for guys, most of what we do to make it last longer could in some ways be summarized as 'enjoy it less and make it not as good for us'. So I guess I'm suggesting that sometimes take it slow, sometimes go fast. It shouldn't be 100% about either of you every time.
2016-03-29 05:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation can last forever, but the "real thing" is a much more pleasurable feeling, and he can get his rocks off quicker than you can say "oooohhh". Especially if he's relatively "new" at the whole sex thing.
You've got to learn to control the muscles and the "action"...he's got to learn control or he's going to be Mr. Quckie all his life.
Good luck. Try having him think of the ugliest man he's ever seen, or biting his tongue/cheek...sometimes that works.
2006-12-12 15:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by vamedic4 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may just get him so excited it doesnt last very long. I wouldnt worry too much yet. Chances are masturbation doesnt turn him on as much as you do. Which is probably a good thing.
2006-12-12 15:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs Baker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given the option which would you choose 2 hours or a quickie? See what experience with him shows. He may get it to the point where you are satisfied.
2006-12-12 23:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by JOHN M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre just a really big turn on and he cant control it!! thats what my man says...lol Seriously maybe he's used to not getting laid and he's extra excited around you. whether you know it or not you have control in this as well, learn how to control them muscles in there, and go easy on em' trust me it works. If he gets too excited, you need to slow down...
2006-12-12 16:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must have a magic coochie.
2006-12-12 15:40:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
DO YOU MEAN ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION, OR PREMATURE EJAC.....OR WAS THE TV ON?
2006-12-12 15:41:18 · answer #8 · answered by jon 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋