But it turned into something more.I have been married 2 years and half after a year of dating.My husband is an okay guy and i thought i could grow to love him and be sextually attracted to him but it has not happened yet.I do love him as a friend though and i respect him.I ran into an old flame and first true love at work he is my boss indirectly though.What started as flirting has turned in to feelings all over again since we go to lunch , an occasional drink, see each other everyday, and work together.I feel awful because i am married.I am afraid something will happen on a buisness trip?
2006-12-12 15:22:20 · 6 answers · asked by Moria B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I married my husband because he was safe and i new he would never harm me emotionally.I dont want to hurt him though or make him feel bad.
2006-12-12 15:23:58 · update #1
I really want to avoid cheating !!!!but am not happy with my marriage!!
2006-12-12 15:28:25 · update #2
You are a sad, self centered person. You can never be happy, you are like an addicted gambler, know matter how much you win, you will play until you lose. An then look stupid, and throw a pity party, woe on me. You are a sad, sick person.
2006-12-12 15:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by bigslick60 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make it a rule, now that you are in the business world, to not sleep with co-workers, bosses etc. These always end badly, and everyone in the office finds out, including the boss's wife. You then look like a real fool, whether the other guy is married or not.... even worse if he is single, because he blabs....... suddenly everyone is looking at you, and you look foolish --- then you are out of a job------- oh good. (Did you like that job? You won't when your office knows about what is going on....) Never fails. They even make movies about this crap. If you want out of your marriage, then get out.... don't lower yourself to betrayal, Then date anyone outside of your office if you wish, hon,.... but this???? this one stinks, and could ruin you. Think ahead, honey.
2006-12-12 15:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think and pray long and hard before you do anything. It takes two people to make a marrige work- if you don't want to put effort into your marriage, then you should leave for your sake and for your husbands' sake. I would take things really slow. Don't rush- you may end up regretting your choices if you get too hasty.
2006-12-12 15:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by JustMyOpinion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
another example of someone not ready to marry making a comitment and going through the motions without having any substance to the words
tell your husband the WHOLE TRUTH and the get a divorce before you wind up hurting the guy seriously
2006-12-12 15:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Why did you even marry your husband to begin with?? It's like you married your friend....... you should marry someone you're in love with......
You need to make a decision. Don't lead either of them on. And stop thinking about hurting your husband if you end it with him. Because you're just hurting him more by staying with him if you're not even in love with him.
So if you're not happy, tell him this. Because like I just said, you're hurting him MORE by staying with him apparently.
2006-12-12 15:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to avaoid cheating, then i would do what you can to avoid this business trip together. it's enevitable. even if you think you'd never do it, it will most likely happen. then it gets complicated... cut off relations with the old flame the best you can.
2006-12-12 16:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋