When I stay in a hotel/motel I get this anxiety that someone in the room next to mine is going to have sex and I am going to have to listen to it. Does this bother anyone else? I can't stand this, even when I am with my husband. I just think it is rude. What are your opinions or comments. Please be nice.
2006-12-12 15:07:22 · 15 answers · asked by ? 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I understand sometimes people go to hotels to have sex, but I'm talking about all the noise and moans. Can't they keep it down, no one else wants to hear all that.
2006-12-12 15:13:41 · update #1
Actually no I'm not a prude. I am just mature enough to know that someone else is on the other side of the wall and they don't want to hear me. I don't have to go to a hotel to have a good time with sex. I can do that in my bedroom at home. Usually when I stay in hotels and I am travelling, so I like to get a good nights sleep, not listen to the people in the room next to me sounding like 2 hound dogs.
2006-12-13 06:15:34 · update #2
i,m with you on that one.i think it sounds terrible. they could at least keep it down.
2006-12-12 15:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Actually, when I go to hotels, I feel like someone is watching me and my husband have sex. I'm a bit paranoid about it and make sure the blanket is covering us at all times. Don't worry, we've never been one of the ones keeping you up at night.
It's not rude to have sex in a hotel. We are very rarely able to go anywhere where we would need to get a hotel, but on the rare occasion that is does happen, it also usually means no kids either. That is the only real free time we have and we enjoy every second of it. I won't apologize for that. (I will say that sometimes you don't realize how loud you are when you're caught in the moment - they may not be trying to be loud on purpose.)
2006-12-12 15:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if you should think of staying somewhere besides in a hotel/motel because that is going to be something that is going to continue to happen. Put yourself in that persons shoes it may be a couple that have children at home and have not had the chance to fully enjoy each other cause of the kids. It could be that virgin couple on there honeymoon (LOL, do any of those even exist anymore). Of course it may seem rude to you but can you honestly say that if your making love to your husband and you are enjoying it that you are very quiet? If so I feel for you.
2006-12-12 21:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its rude at all, because that what's hotels/motels are used for most of the time. a hotel/motel is a private place, where they can have sex without anyone finding out. Their is nothing wrong with it. If they can't have sex in their house because they live at home, or their are other people in the house, where are they supposed to have fun at?
2006-12-12 15:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-03 17:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by swindell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you upset about this ..I cannot comprehend it...You are there with you husband and you are judging other couples living next door to you....give me a break..
Hotels are temporary stays for married couples on their honeymoon vacation..for business trip travellers who are having a fling in a foreign city away from home...for private people to meet becuase on inconvenience in meeting at home or in a place of familiarity...what do you expect a hotel will house...
a bunch of seniors ctizens....are how about a group of kids playing loud music or TV nintendo games while you are sleeping at night.....OH GROW UP you Funny People.......
2006-12-12 15:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a puritanical prude. Also, I would bet a week's pay that you have a very unfulfilling sex life with hubby. You sound a bit sexually repressed, and more than a bit jealous of the other couple's rockin' next door. Poor baby.
2006-12-12 16:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your in a public place and its gonna happen. I always laugh when that happens. I also make sure the couple next to me hears me laughing. Or just turn the sound up on the TV if you have to. Sweet dreams.......
2006-12-12 15:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by Chicago Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree. it can be sick. i mean sex is good in privacy. noone wants to hear people make moaning and pleasure noises in a hotel. people go to hotels sometimes to have sex but they don't have to be rude and be loud. so I agree with you. I have this anxiety too. lol and i'm a guy
2006-12-12 15:16:11 · answer #9 · answered by yawn 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sex without noise? You must be kidding! There is no fun if there is no noise while hugging, kissing and doing everything else that goes with making love!
2006-12-12 15:21:24 · answer #10 · answered by Sami V 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You just have to learn to laugh at human foibles. And think of something really, really funny to say to your husband loud enough they can hear it next door. Frankly I ignore it (but then all men have that gift :P )
2006-12-12 15:14:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋