I am pregnant with twins the father and i used to date in college and he was my first love.At the time when we met up again i was seperated from my hubby and was in the process of divorcing and he was seperated from his wife and mother of his daughter.We went out had a few drinks since he was a lawyer we discussed my divorce proceedings and well had one too many drinks resulting in my pregnancy.My ex.bf is considering going back to his wife for his daughter?If i tell him i am 4 months pregnant i am afraid i will ruin his chance at a happy marriage?
2006-12-12 14:47:49 · 18 answers · asked by gracie m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am 100 percent sure they are his children.
2006-12-12 14:59:59 · update #1
You had better tell him.... if you are together or not he has a right to know assuming you live in the same area it is only a matter of time before he figures it out or worse his wife does.... It is better to have things out in the open
2006-12-12 14:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by susiefila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever be the consequences you should tell him. Leave every thing to gods will. He should be told and he has a right to know. Your children also have a right to know who is their father. Let this lawyer do justice. He is bound to pay child support.
2006-12-12 23:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are pregnant-not who the father is just to find out his reaction first. It might be best if you wait until after the twins are born so you will not be getting upset now.
2006-12-12 23:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't pregnant by yourself. This is heartbreaking to be sure. If he and his wife were supposed to just be taking some time apart,I'm sure it will be rough on their marriage. However,I think you should tell him and let him decide what he wants to do. It appears you care about each other and I would want to know.God bless you in making this decision.Merry Christ'mas.
2006-12-12 23:07:56 · answer #4 · answered by wonder woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you will ruin his marriage, but that the consequence for his actions he has to support you and the kids and of all things he is a lawyer and he should know that... good luck i hope everything turns out for the better!
2006-12-12 22:52:50 · answer #5 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a f(l)ucking joke, right? I mean in today's world, we as modern humans, unlike ancient Egyptians, know where babies come from, right? And we do have it figured out that sexual intercourse leads to pregnancy. But we also know that there are bc pill, too, as well as condoms, so, no, hon, this is a joke.... no one is this stupid.... Good try, tho. and thanks for the 2 points
2006-12-12 23:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether will it ruin his marriage( i thought he was separated from his wife) is another matter. To tell him that u are pregnant with his baby is a must as he must bear respsonsibility to support his would be born kids. So go tell him.
2006-12-12 23:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by Renew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you where him would you not want to know you have two children with someone ? he has every right to know he two babies ready to be born . and your children will need a father and all so need support from there father. so tell him.
2006-12-12 23:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that that will end his marriage, ubt you need to be honest with him. This is not going to be easy, but there are two more children involved and he need to know he is the father.
2006-12-12 22:52:21 · answer #9 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him make that choose tell him I know if I was going to be a father I would want to know regardless of the situation
2006-12-12 22:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by colvin0594 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋