i feel so bad for my 12 year old stepsister, she has to listen to them yell at the top of their lungs and cuss at eachother, she should not be going through this at her age, i have been going through it my whole life with my real mom, and i fight all the time with people and i dont even realize im doing it. i dont want her to end up the same way im am, what do i do. she is a wonderfull person
2006-12-12 14:32:45 · 9 answers · asked by jamesthehotcheeto 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
How lucky your step-sister is to have you, I would just hold her and let her know everything is going to be ok and you will always be there for her..Hope the fighting stops :)
2006-12-12 14:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by kel s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are old enough 2 drive then drive with ur little sister and go 2 an aunts house or some thing if ur not then just go 2 ur room take her with u and listen 2 music or watch a movie to get her mind off of it
2006-12-12 22:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by whitney b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that. Tell your sister that not all family's are like that. If she grows up thinking that that is how family's work, than there is a high chance she will fight with her husband. Show her how to control her anger by being someone she can look for guidance.
2006-12-12 22:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by Tess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever they're fighting, invite her to hang out in your room or something. Try to distract her with a game, or just hang out or watch tv together. If she wants to talk about it, try to be supportive and explain that they aren't supposed to act like that.
I'm sorry, it's not a very good situation is it? I hope it works out.
2006-12-12 22:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try n get her out of the house or away from them when ever they start to fight, show her that life is not as bad as fighting parents make it seem.
2006-12-12 22:55:23 · answer #5 · answered by whitechic808 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray for your parents and pray for your stepsister. You must understand that this is not your fault. God can help you cope.
2006-12-12 22:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by ELDER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same exact situation with my brother. you just have to tell her they have problems and talk about ur experiences. tell her to ignore it, and maybe even stand up to her parents to stop screaming like that..show them how youve felt all your life and how its has affected you
2006-12-12 22:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by freezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go in her room and talk to her.. about school or something... explain that all is well or bring her in yours and go online to disney .com or something and listen to music.?
2006-12-12 22:38:24 · answer #8 · answered by Mystic Bell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her,explain everything.
2006-12-12 22:36:12 · answer #9 · answered by Kaushall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋