I told one of my co-workers that her husband had been cheating on her.. (I know this 4 a fact!)...I KNOW NOW THAT I SHOULD HAVE JUST KEPT MY MOUTH SHUT!...but anyways now i feel akward working there...half of her family works at the same place i do...and I see them giving me weird looks...I was NOT trying to break this family up yet i feel that that is what she thinks...I feel horrible...and I seriously feel like quiting because of this...Im in an akward situation...instead of helping i made thinkgs owrse for myself! HELP!
2006-12-12 13:58:26 · 14 answers · asked by Licha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I somehow now think that she think i want her husband!
2006-12-12 14:00:17 · update #1
No he did not cheat on her with me thats freaking gross! Big age difference!!! ewww but Yea its a long story...
2006-12-12 14:03:14 · update #2
You did the best thing you could've done...be honest. If they don't like that, then that's their fault. It is not you're problem. However, it could be one of those marriages where she knows, but chooses to ignore it. Idk, I do know that you did the right thing weather they like it or not!!
2006-12-12 14:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by dragonberry_huckefly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you did not M.Y.O.B. or Mind Your Own Business. It is not any of your concern if the chump is cheating- why you told your co-worker is beyond me & you yourself can not beleive it either. And that half her family works with you- wow, you are very young - probably your first job- this will be a good lesson for you on how to act in the work owrld & the world in general . If your co- worker was your best friend , yes , you owe it to her to tell her, this co-worker means nothing to you. Please just do your job & quite trying to be in the " loop" that is not how you go about being " in the know" . Also before you do anything- reverse how it would feel if the situation happened to you.
2006-12-12 22:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by jyone scotani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it as a lesson well learned. We all make mistakes, and sometimes some are harder than others. A friend told me a very long time ago, regarding relationships, never tell someone that their spouse or girlfriend/boyfriend is cheating, even if you know for sure. You never know how much one may care about the other and you may be responsible for a murder at worst, and at least you will make someone hate you. Even if you are telling the truth. If confronted, just simply tell them. You know, I am sorry I ever said anything, I wish I would have kept my mouth shut. However, I did tell the truth. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-12 22:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would probably find another job, things there will probably never be the same and get harder to deal with over time. Don't tell anyone that their spouse is cheating, they will find out eventually, that is something that can't be hidden forever.Good Luck to you
2006-12-12 22:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't quit. We live and learn. Sometimes, it is best to keep out of others business. Of course, this depends on the person. And this too shall pass.
2006-12-12 22:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should of kept your mouth shut.
2006-12-12 22:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by 40% angel 60% devil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's good that you told her. If you are so uncomfortable working there maybe you should look for another job.
2006-12-12 22:01:08 · answer #7 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should mind your own life . These things always come back to kick us in the teeth .
2006-12-12 22:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have no fear and if you quit then they have won! It will blow over but, next time offer the turth not just facts!
2006-12-12 22:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by MagikButterfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't say anything more- if what you said was true - you have nothing to worry about-
YOU MAY WANT TO LOOK FOR ANOTHER JOB-
it will not be comfortable there...
2006-12-12 22:01:10 · answer #10 · answered by Sherry C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋