We have to give it up to you guys all the time, but when the tables are turned and you're not in the mood we still burn. Why should we give all the time and never get it in return? We make ourselves do what you want when we are stressed, overtired, disrespected and lied to, overworked and underpaid with no help from you, you look gross with your beer belly and chicken legs and bad breath and bad manners....is there any down side to being a guy?? (Chauvinists, keep your opinions to yourself and any insults are going to go unnoticed because any nice guys out there will have enough sense in their heads to know this question is obviously not for them)
2006-12-12 13:56:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I totally agree with you dear, and in my case, I have never turned a mate down when she asked me to perform, even when I didn't actually feel like it. I think it should be a two way street, and both parties should be equal in that regard. Also I believe that both parties should do their utmost to remain fit and attractive, within limits of course, so I am not saying people should starve themselves. It is amazing what a good brisk walk several times a day will do for ones health and well being, even if that is the only type of excercise you can manage. There are downsides to be a guy, a nice guy that is, and I do get what you are getting at, so maybe I should not have answered this, but I couldn't resist. I am sorry that you haven't found the right guy, if that is the case, and hopefully you will find someone soon.
2006-12-12 14:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sky, Id have to say a man has to get it up. I hope you don't have that attitude when your getting romantic. Most women believe and I see by your question your one of them, that a man can do it at a moments notice.Unfortunately this is not the case
so if you want a good lover for life just as I would say if a women asked the same question "understanding soft touch can do wonders"
2006-12-13 11:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by tonyflorida2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in that situation several times, but I dont "expect" her to give it up every time I mention it. If there are guys out there who "do" expect it, then they are the ones on the losing end. I have more respect for my lady than that. We can't all be on the same "sex schedule" all the time. When we are not turned on at the moment, there's nothing much that can be done.
2006-12-12 22:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 100% right.But there are good men,and bad men always around the planet earth.Good question.
2006-12-12 22:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always deliver, call me the mailman.
I can honestly say, I've never 'not' been in the mood.
2006-12-12 22:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, my man wants it about 2 times a month, and then when I try initiate it, he pushes me away. Weird ain't it.
2006-12-12 22:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When ever my wife wants it,She gets it.
2006-12-13 22:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men should satisfy their women..as women should their men...its give and take people...stop with holding the goods...
2006-12-12 22:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by NONAME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋