Am I destined to be alone for the rest of my life?

Question

Why.

Why.

Bakit. (Why.)

I feel like I've had a meaningless, purposeless life. All I do is think of DDR, play StepMania, go on here, and work on math! I even used to play Yu-Gi-Oh!

I am open to various people, but a lot, I feel negative constantly. Hell, just today, someone (Christiana) kept making me worse and I kept thinking me about my future.

My first year in high school: Alone at the dance.

Senior Prom: Alone.

College: Alone.

Death: Alone.

So why? Ay nako (Oh, God), I can't think straight now. I feel like after I get braces and glasses soon, I'll be laughed at. Everybody doesn't tell me the truth a lot, and it just pisses me off.

So is there someone for me? Oh, Lord, just give me the girl now! I don't want to be alone.

Story One: Attack of the Rapid Rapada

Ok, so it was fifth grade. We were switching classes, til I saw I cute girl whom I turned out to like. I tried talkin' to her at recess the following day, and she just went ew.

In sixth, I tried time and time again, but it failed 100%.

I tried being nice, but for once, she said, "We'll just be friends." I hate that statement.

I'm also outgoing. Well, was until the move to SA.

The bikes deep in the garage and disassembles. No arcades nearby, so no DDR shows.

I don't have braces (yet) and I might have to wear glasses later on because...yeah.

Answer 1

Girls, and women, are generally attracted to older men. So. Don't worry about it so much right now. Do the things that you need to do, and learn the things that you need to be learning right now {like how to support a wife, and possibly kids}. You will eventually get older, it happens to us all if we live long enough. And quit setting yourself up for rejection.

Answer 2

You will not be alone. Others have made good suggestions...get out there and try other things...get physically active, try a sport, join a club or other school activities.

Braces can be managed, as can glasses, but consider contacts if you feel that strongly about it.

Be kind to people. I know at times it seems as if the "bad boys" get all the girls, but into college and your twenties you'll find the scales tip into your direction...good, solid, kind, smart people will prevail.

Over time the right person will reveal herself. 'Till then, be sure you have genuine friends, and relax and enjoy yourself a bit more.

Answer 3

Why do you care what people think ? The right girl will come along while that do something productive with your time. Heck Im 14 and Im like you yet I know software engineering. What is going to be wrong with you is if you sit your whole life waiting for your luck to change, when life gives you weed leaves roll em up =]

Answer 4

don't worry so much, i've had those meaningless purposeless thoughts too.... but i get over them........at least for sometime.
i suggest that you look for your strengths... there's a whole life time left to be with girls...what's the hurry?
everyone has unique abilites and powers, i'm sure you have atleast one! search for it. when you find it, make sure you enjoy it, then practice it- become an expert. this will help you all your life. then... then you'll see how girls come running after you.... 100% garenteed! ☺

Answer 5

i'm sorry, i don't have time to study that, yet all I somewhat ought to say is that no remember what existence throws at you, you've the flexibility to make it even with you want it to be. you purely choose the right motivation and ability to finish that. i believe that each and every thing has a purpose, you've your existence, you're meant to do something with it. you're question ability that you purely do not appreciate, at this aspect in time, the existence that you've. And as I reported, replace it to be that way you want it replaced into.

Answer 6

Honey, you need to get out more. Get away from the computer. There are lots of people who are late bloomers, don't even have a boyfriend or girlfriend till after college. My brother was that way. And he and his wife just had twins. All you need is one special person. Just one. She's out there. Go find her.

Answer 7

It will work out, really. Get more active in a sport--walking, track, whatever...you need to get yourself doing something to get you mind thinking of other things. You will get more friends that way.

Answer 8

i feel the same way! i have no one, i have braces, but a lot of ppl have them now so thats ok, but if you ever need to talk ill be there!!!

Answer 9

just get out more!.. thats probably all you need. just dont rush things. meet new people, but dont come on too strong. whats meant to be, will be.

Answer 10

i maddam cassandra .i am looking in to my crystal ball....i see a you and a woman named Dana Lee Hathorn. She is beautiful....you are happy......i hope you know i made that up....if you want to be happy belive it..ok!?