I would hate to believe that all marriages have to be unhappy. Anyone else totally in love with their spouse?
2006-12-12 13:44:57 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There's such a thing as "totally happily married"?! Huh... Well more power to you hun!!!! :)
2006-12-12 13:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is a question that I have asked myself so many times. I have come to believe that most marriages there is at least one unhappy spouse. It is sad that things are this way. I for one am totally in love with my husband, but I am sooo unhappy. I cry all the time and feel empty and lost and deep down I know one day I am going to have to make a decision as to stay or leave. But my relationship isn't a good one--it is abusive.
If you are in a relationship and are unhappy. Reevaluate the things that are making you unhappy. Try talking them over with your spouse. Communication is the best key to a successful marriage.
My mother always told me that the "magical sparkle" that once brought you two together kind of disappears. You learn to become your own best friend. You two kinda work together to support each other, etc. I hope all of this makes since to you. I hope everything works out. Pray.
2006-12-12 21:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by ~Shelly~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Happily married, yes.
Totally happily married, well, I don't think I've ever been totally happy with anything. It's not like we never fight or disagree, or that there aren't things I wouldn't change if I ever got to be in charge of the world.
A happy marriage isn't the same thing as a perfect marriage. In fact, if you're holding out for perfect, I can pretty much guarantee you're never going to be happy.
2006-12-12 21:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by EQ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am acutally happier than I ever imagined. I was so afraid of marriage and I had heard a lot of horror stories about the first year. I have never been happier in my life. Although, I will say it takes effort. When I come home and I am tired and don't feel like making dinner I do it anyway. In the end, my husban makes me feel like the worlds best cook and he makes me happy that I did make dinner. Not just dinner, but every time I feel like doing something that will make him happy......he shows me that it was worth it. I married the right man. I fall in love with him over and over again every day.
2006-12-12 21:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by editing4u 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My parents were happily married for over 40 years.
My sisters and brother are all married and happy.
I'm still in love with my husband after 31 years.
The problem is you don't hear about the happy ones you only hear about the ones that don't work.
Kinda like the news...you only hear the awful stories.
2006-12-12 21:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me, I am!!!! Over 27 years and as in love if not more so today than back in the complete romance stage. Think of what long term marriages offers a person; one stablity, a person we can count on no matter what, unconditional love, a person that knows you almost if not better than you know your self. A person you can be relaxed with and just enjoy lifes journey. So answer is there is at least one other out here and it is me
2006-12-12 21:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am very happily in love with my husband, he is my best and only friend, when my friends turned their backs on me he was the only one there. We have been married 7 1/2 years. All those years we have been very, very happy. Hopefully yours will be the same!
2006-12-12 22:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by sexxeeone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
30 years and counting.
We got married at 18, 1 month out of high school.
Our parents are married long, too. My wife's - 50 years.
My parents; when they were alive, 42 years.
Heard about a couple on the Bob and Tom show that have been married for 70 years!!
2006-12-12 21:47:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i have been married 4years and I totally love my hubby. I think it's just craziness these days that makes it seem like ALL marriages have to be unhappy.
2006-12-12 21:47:07 · answer #9 · answered by eh77530 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i am happily married. it will be 4 years next month. he is my first real love. we were engaged at 16 and got married at 18 and still going strong at 22. i am so much in love.
2006-12-12 22:31:56 · answer #10 · answered by sexy gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
VERY IN LOVE! Marriages can live "happily ever after"
2006-12-12 23:07:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋