You are stuck in a loveless marriage, and you found your soulmate. Would you live in the marriage due to responsibility or you will follow your heart and go with your soulmate..
Many great thinker said "Always follow your heart"..I am very confused now!
2006-12-12 13:41:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When one gets married that doesn't mean he/she found his/her soulmate, there are other factors(culture/pregnant/parent wishes/matchmakes, etc..) than can also made someone have to get married..and this marriage will end up as loveless!
2006-12-12 14:24:36 · update #1
Why be miserable? Is that fair to anyone? As much as it may hurt, aren't the two people in a loveless marriage better off if they're free from an obligation that neither of them can happily keep?
I'm not trying ot diminish the significance of a marriage, either. I believe it takes two people to let a marriage fail... but they do fail.
2006-12-12 13:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by gooniekim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you get married with your soulmate? Many find their soulmate and get married, but later find out it is a loveless marriage??? It could be another loveless marriage after you follow your heart and go with your soulmate.
2006-12-12 14:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you willing to go into another relationship with excess baggage? This marriage that you are in has had some type of baggage. Do you want to go into another one with that? You would of course need time to heal? If your marriage is loveless now, what have you done to make things better. My advice is to do all that you can do to make a situation better. And after that then move on. But remember, if things get like this with your soulmate, then what are you going to do. That's what you should consider doing now. Remember marriages have their ups and downs. Its what you are willing to do to improve the situation.
2006-12-12 13:50:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you have both? You can still live up to your responsibilities. A loveless marriage, if truly finished is not fair to either partner. Follow your heart.
2006-12-12 13:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with love comes responsibility, they are inseperable.
however if the marriage is loveless then the responsibility has gone too, UNLESS there is a child or children involved, this changes everything because the love and responsibility for the child remains.
Never easy and its for YOU to decide not others, do what you think is right and never doubt your decision for one minute or it will fail.
;) H
2006-12-12 13:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many great thinkers are dead also! You made a vow to be in the marriage and you need to be responsible and stay in it. If your husband cheated or you have done so yourself, then you don't deserve each other. If neither of you have cheated, then this so called "soul mate" is complete infatuation.
2006-12-12 13:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by Plex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may not be the popular answer but Im a sucker for love. maybe thats why my life is a mess! :) Screw it. I am less ashamed of my mistakes than I am regretful of the things i should have done and will never know about...Go for it. It will certainly be tough though. Make sure you know what you are getting into or it could be a disaster for you and your family. Make sure you really know this person and they will be there for you.
2006-12-12 13:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by chcknbizkit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your soulmate. it will b better for you . . . If this marrage is not going anywhere, and you do not feel the same anymore go with the ovbious. A soulmate is better than anything people say . . .
2006-12-12 13:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love, all the way, all the time.
2006-12-12 13:43:47 · answer #9 · answered by hakandragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help, his family and my family never spoke, his family is in pakistan and iam in new york, queens, living with him and my 3 kids... does it mean it is offical..
2006-12-12 13:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋