My friend is known as a whore. She will spread her legs for any man but, she gets picked on at school a lot. I think it is in her best interest to get an abortion so she doesn't get try to kill herself when she gets picked on.
2006-12-12 13:34:14 · 24 answers · asked by Hoopz C 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
no, dont kill an inoccent child just because you are afraid of her getting picked on... first off, she should have thought about all this before she had sex..so now she has to deal with it... 2nd, its her child, you cant convince her to do anything. its 100% up to her. do you really know how bad abortion is???... look, go to this website and watch this viedo.. it might not change your veiws, but it sure as hell changed mine when i first saw it.... http://www.prolifetraining.com/QT/Abortion-Pictures-high.htm
my best friend is about 7 weeks pregnant right now. she is turning 15 in february. so i know, that it is hard, seeing your friend being pregnant, at such a young age, and you are scared for her, and just want the best for her... but the best you can give her, is to be there for her throughout the pregnany, and just support her. dont care what other kids think of her. in a couple of years, you'll never see those kids again.most of them are assholes anyways.
she can go to a local planned parenthood, and they can help her with aboslutley everything. but please, dont push her towards an abortion.
if you need any help at all, feel free to email me anytime. ninablanca10@yahoo.com
good luck to you and your friend =]
2006-12-12 15:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by =] 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I think that abortion is wrong. But if you really do want to convince her, dont be rude and yell at her if she dosent listen. First you should listen to her side of the story. Maybe she dosen like abortion. Than you definatley should NOT even think of convincing her, because she will be hurt and feel not cared about. If she wants the kid DO NOT tell her to get an abortion. Otherwise you should tell her everything will be alright and tell her options. If she dosent mind getting picked on, leave her be. But just remember to always keep her options open! And if she gets called a whore-just SUPPORT HER! if she "spreads her legs for any guy" tell her its wrong. Make sure she knows that, and if she wants to ruin her life by sleeping around and she wont listen to you? Than let her be and Warn her.
2006-12-12 21:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend must be lacking parental guidance to be sexually active and pregnant at 15. The best interest of the baby would be to give it up for adoption. The baby is entitled to a two parent home, the baby didn't ask to be brought in to this world and to kill it because it isn't convienient is wrong. Your friend needs to talk to a counselor about getting picked on. If your friend will try to kill herself because she is picked on says that she is not a stable individual and needs immediate attention to a counselor or parent or even a teacher or better yet your mother. Seriously sit down and tell your mom and let her help you through this. She is older and has more wisdom than teenagers.
2006-12-12 21:43:21 · answer #3 · answered by cool chic 2no 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend who was like that in school. well, not that bad, but she ended up pregnant at 15 with her boyfriend of 2 years. her father forced an abortion on her. she's now 27 and still deals with it every day. she says if she had known what it would do to her mental and emotional state, she wouldn't have done it. so, you have to take that into consideration too, not just her being picked on for being preggie, but being called a baby killer for having an abortion, as well as dealing with the fact that she killed her own baby. be her friend and support whatever decision SHE makes, not the one you think she should.
2006-12-12 21:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by Mommyof4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what an individual believes. Myself, i do not believe in abortions. That simple fact is, if she is old enough to do the deed she should know what some of the consequences are in doing so. Try to get her to talk to a counsellor, or someone she trusts. Second of all, get her to decide whether or not she is responsible enough to care for a child. Even if she herself can not care for a child there are thousands of couples who aren't so lucky to be able to conceive, 1 option is to put the child up for adoption. It would make 1 couple very happy and the child would be loved and cared for.
But ultimately the decision is for your friend to decide. As for the teasing, all i can say is to try ignore them, they must not have anything better to do with themselves, so that says a lot for them. So try a counsellor, support from family and friends and she should be able to make the right decision.
Whatever her choice is, i wish her luck and hope she does not make a decision she will regret later on in life. Children are precious and should not be taken for granted.
2006-12-12 21:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by chapie2509 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all why would you call your friend a whore there are nicer ways of putting it.
at the end of the day you cant force her into doing anything its her decsion and if she gets picked on then she gets picked on.
an abortion is murder in my eyes and only in certain circumstances would i agree with it.
your friend should face up to her consequences if she think shes old enough to sleep around with every tom,dick and harry then she should be old enough to accept the consequences.
i lost my virginity while at school but i always practised save sex and it was always wwith a guy who i was in a relationship with.
if your friend does decide to have an abortion then thats her choice but i wisely advise her to keep her legs closed next time and learn to respect her body.
sorry if i sound harsh but a having a abortion is not a form of contreceptive it is a lil babys life.
2006-12-12 21:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by babytots 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't call her a whore. A real friend wouldn't do that. Also, a real friend wouldn't try to convince her to have an abortion OR to carry the child. A real friend simply supports the decision made. I'm not jumping your butt or anything, don't misinterpret what I'm saying, I just mean be a friend and support whatever decision she makes. It's her life.
2006-12-12 21:36:24 · answer #7 · answered by 'tisJustMe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your friend is very insecure with herself, she is trying to fill an empty place in her by turning to guys to find whats lacking. if your a good friend of course your going to support her no matter what she decides but she does have a decision to make so my advice is this, abortion may not be the best decision first i would advise her to talk to her doctor about the options she has. she can choose to abort of course but she can also look into adoption choices. there are really good families out there looking to adopt babies and she could still be in the childs life if she chose to be. she has choices that should be made very clear to her before she does anything!!!!!!!!!! she is not alone either. there are lots of girls in her situation so be there for her and help her as much as she needs. also please advise her to get counseling either through her school or through another place but she WILL need it. no matter what she chooses to do she needs someone to talk to!!!.
2006-12-12 21:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't. Abortion is murder. Years from now she might just want to kill herself when she realizes what she has done to her child. Also, I know someone who had an abortion when they were young, and now every time she gets pregnant, she has a miscarriage. Having a baby is sometimes one of those things you didn't know you wanted until it happened. Even if she doesn't want to keep the baby, it would consider adoption. At least it gives the child a chance at life--perhaps a decent one.
2006-12-12 21:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abortion isn't always the answer. maybe your friend should consider adoption, there are lots of loving families out there that would love to have a baby. Maybe you should convince your friend to confide in a school teacher counsleor or someone she looks up to. Is the father of the baby going to help her, does her parents know. I think she should really confide in someone and figure out what she needs to do that is best for herself and not anyone else!!
2006-12-12 21:39:52 · answer #10 · answered by Floridapurrfection 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋