well i had this best friend...and someone told me that she called my boyfriend and told him that i was cheating on him wich i'm not...then i herd her talk bad about my family.....so now i'm not talking to her and she told me that she never called my boyfriend..who should i believe??
2006-12-12 13:26:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you heard her talk bad about your family then you know she is not trust-worthy,Go to your boyfriend and ask him ..Good Luck PS? Get a new friend No friend would treat me like that...:)
2006-12-12 13:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by kel s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask your boyfriend if she really called him. and did you actually hear her speak badly of your family, or did someone else tell you that she was? I know that you're upset, but you don't want to jump to conclusions before you get all the facts. so, start by asking your boyfriend is she called him, and ask him if he's sure that he could identify her voice on the phone. someone else may have called him and pretended to be her. and if you didn't hear her talking badly about your family with your own ears, then you need to go to the person or persons that told you she was. check out every little thing before making a decision. and if you find out that she really did do what she's accused of, she's not really your friend, and you're not losing anything. but if you find out that she didn't do what she's being accused of, you're going to be losing a best friend. and the person or persons who really are trying to cause trouble for you will be laughing their heads off because they will have accomplished exactly what they set out to do. so be careful.
I wish you the best with everything.
2006-12-12 21:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did YOU hear her bad mouth you family? If yes you dont need a friend like her (I can talk bad about my family but no one out of my family can) as for the boyfriend ask him if you have a good relationship I am sure he will be honest
2006-12-12 21:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by Nani 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, confront her with the person that said she called your boyfriend.
About the other issue- Hey you heard her talk bad about your family- ARE YOU KIDDING ME? no friend ever talks bad about their friends family.
This girl is no friend of yours, even if she didn't call your boyfriend- she talked about something precious to you- YOUR FAMILY.
2006-12-12 21:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to the beat friend. The girl might just be lying. You should clear it up between your best friend before things get worse!
2006-12-12 21:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask your boyfriend?
Also, if you heard her speaking badly about your family then what would it matter if she did call him or not. She ain't a friends a**hole.
2006-12-12 21:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your boyfriend whether she said that to him or not then ask a person that you trust about whether she is talking bad about your family or not.
2006-12-12 21:32:03 · answer #7 · answered by brighterdayscounseling 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is really difficult to believe in hearsay but in this case, just go with your gut feeling. And, if she was a "best friend"....she wouldn't have done what she did if she did do it.
2006-12-12 21:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by bettyboop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask your boyfriend if she called?
2006-12-12 21:28:53 · answer #9 · answered by Lori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your boyfriend and the person she was bad mouthing your family to.
2006-12-12 21:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by Juice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋