I am almost 13 weeks pregnant... but still worry that I am not pregnant?

Question

Anyone else have problems believing it is real. Missed 3 periods, nauseated, moods, tired, positive tests, etc. When does this seem real??? When do I believe it?

i am showing. I was showing since 6 weeks... I showed early with my daugther too

Answer 1

I get that too

Answer 2

You've just got the jitters, Whenever you have a miscarriage you are always going to worry about future pregnancies and how they are going. I was exactly the same. I had 2 miscarriages last year before finally getting it right and I was worried too. 172 is an extremely strong heartbeat for your baby and as soon as you can see the heartbeat, the chances of miscarriage drops dramatically. It doesn't disappear completely, but it's a lot more likely to survive. Try and stop all the worrying because it's not doing you or the baby any good. Just take each visit to the doctor one at a time and enjoy the pregnancy.

Answer 3

When you have your first sonogram, that's when you know it's for real. But all the symptoms you described are right on to being pregnant.

Let me just share from personal experience: Well, I'm assuming this is your first baby. I still remember when I was pregnant with my oldest child, 25 years ago. I knew I was pregnant. I had all the symptoms, pregnancy test, sonogram etc. So it was a sure thing, right? But it never sank in totally until I saw her right after she came out of me. I mean they held her up and said, "It's a baby girl." And I was so stunned to see that the human (yet peculiarly alien looking) being they were holding up had just come out of my body. It was so strange. Twenty five years later, I can still travel back in my mind to that instant and remember that feeling I had. It was so odd. So, the believing it part doesn't quite come until your holding your baby in your arms.

Answer 4

hey, in the early stages of pregnancy i didnt feel pregnant either,
i had no real symptoms besides feelin a lil nauseated and tired when i got my first ultrasound it was still hard for me to believe i was pregnant but by the 4th month wen i felt him kicking and moving thats wen it started to sink in although im 35weeks now not very big and although i KNOW i am pregnant i still feel it hasnt totally sunk in!

Answer 5

When you pop! For me, it was around 18 weeks, when I started to show. Until you start to see and feel things a little bit more, it's hard to believe.

I'd quit worrying-based on the above, you're definietly pregnant..and should have had 1 ultrasound by now to confirm.

Answer 6

i find it hard to believe im preg too (im 10 wks)

i think im just holding back as ive lost a lot of babies before 12wks.

i think it will all kick in and feel real the minute labour starts!!!!!
i dont think i will accept it till i hold my baby for the first time

Answer 7

it became real for me when i could feel the baby move. i worried every day that my body was playing a joke on me and i wasn't really pregnant. you'll feel it in a few weeks and your mind will be at ease.

Answer 8

You wont believe it for a while. Wait a little while longer, when you REALLY start showing. Then you'll know.

Answer 9

i felt the same i had terrible nausea day and night and it wasnt until the first scan i knew it was real.

then when i felt the first movement i definately knew it.

it wont be long for you.

hope you have a happy and healthy pregnancy hun x

Answer 10

When you feel your baby move for the first time you will no that it is real...