Hello, My Partner And I Have Been Trying To Have A Child For Over 2yrs Now, With No Luck. I Tried Prenatal Vit. And Everything. Someone Told Me It Would Increase My Chances. No Luck. I Constantly Think About Having A Child. I See Babies At Stores And Just Say Why Can't it be me? I Recently Stared Taking Birth Control Pills Cause Again Someone Said If You Take The For Awhile... Then STOP You Are Fertile. ?
Well I stopped like about a week ago.. We have been trying. Smells are making me vomit, and my breasts are real tender.. I took a home test and nothing... *sighs* am I doin something wrong?
2006-12-12 13:07:36 · 18 answers · asked by preppalette 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Consult a doctor immediately. Self medication is dangerous.
2006-12-12 13:25:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you just stopped taking the pill your hormones are all messed up. Going on the pill get pregnant is really not a good idea unless you were having difficulty with your cycle and the Dr. thought that the pill might be able to correct it. The fact that you have been trying for over 2 years tells me that you should make an appointment with your OBGYN. If you have been trying for over a year with no success there my be some reason that you are not getting pregnant. It could be something with you or your partner. Good luck
2006-12-12 13:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by wesleyann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you are going through this. Have you considered seeing a doctor? As you have been trying for over a year, you will be allowed some tests for infertility. Some are not quite pleasant, but for many people, infertility can be resolved quite easily (you or your partner may have a hormone imbalance). I think finding out for sure is far better than feeling hopeless for a few years. If the tests show nothing is wrong, then just relax, have sex at least every other day, and continue to hope. Good luck.
2006-12-12 13:16:16 · answer #3 · answered by kelly k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh yes I do remember the feeling. I too tried to get pregnant for 5 years. I could just see a new born and almost loose my mind. Heaven help me if I didn't go to the Dr. so many times I lost count.
But yes I "felt" pregnant, I would get all the symptoms, from the sickness at the sight or smell of food to the tender breasts. I think I would "will" myself pregnant and not have a period. Never under estimate the power of the mind.
What worked for me was I lost 20 pounds. I wasn't fat, but I did need to loose the weight. As soon as I lost the weight, bam I was pregnant.
Truth of the matter is you need to relax, and yes I know you can't do that, anymore than I could have. The more that time goes on the more desperate you feel. Good luck and may God bless you with a child, that is as wonderful, as the one he blessed me with (mine is 29 now).
2006-12-12 16:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you are having to go through this. I am sort of in the same boat as you are. I have been pregnant twice without trying, but both times lost the baby in the second trimester due to Incompetent Cervix. Now that I am actually TRYING I am not getting pregnant. A lot of people have told me about something called PreSeed...I ordered some online, and I am not sure if it has worked yet or not. You may also want to try taking Robitussin during the week that you are supposed to be ovulating just to be safe with your cervical mucus. BUT, I am hoping that you are pregnant and don't need any of this advice!
Good luck and baby dust your way!
2006-12-12 13:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by Garrett's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A week is too soon to experience the "signs" of pregnancy. Give it a little more time. It can actaully take a while for the pill to get our of your system in some cases....though there are a lot of people who do get pg right away.....
Maybe you should go to a doctor since you have been trying so long. They can tell you what you have been doing right and what you have been doing wrong. They can also tell you if they find any problems that might hinder you from having a baby and how to fix them. I think that is the best suggestion I can give you.
Good Luck and God Bless!
2006-12-12 14:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by fromthecabbagepatch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is what you do. Stop thinking about it. DO things as a couple. Like go on a romantic trip or just even a date where y'all just decided to go on. When you think about it constantly it won't happen. You are stressing your body out which is making you not being able to have a baby. When Me and my man was together, thats all we thought of. So once I occupied my mind and time with something else, the sex was better because it wasn't only just to have a baby and more relaxing. so when I became pregnant i was like wow i can;t believe i am and we were so happy. Taking birtcontrol is something of no. You want to try and have a baby. do it in a 3 month period. don't think about it and just have sex with your partner for the pleasure and being close to each other feeling. Then occupy your mind on other things beside baby stuff. Think about things like new shoes or a great paint for the house. And before you know it, you will be pregnant. And don't stress your body or your partner. Making him nervous might make his sperm shy and your egg weak. so just relax, take time for y'all self and you will have a baby before you know it.
2006-12-12 14:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by jalmond87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you are reading the directions on the test correctly! Some of them can be a little tricky. If you can't figure it out have someone you are very very comfortable with help you. The symptoms you are having could be because you have started taking birth control again. They are also symptoms of pregnancy. I have never heard of taking bc and then stopping so you will be fertile. For some people it has the opposite affect on them. So make sure you are reading the directions correctly and keep trying. Best Wishes!
2006-12-12 13:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by faith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing EVERYTHING wrong. First of all, to get pregnant you should use effective methods. That thing on the birth control pills is a lie... dont lie to yourself. Did you read the manual? there it says that you should wait 3 months to get pregnant after you stop taking the pills. You need to wait until your hormonal system well again. The sensations of vomit and breast growth are nothing but the hormones of the pills acting...
Please, visit a REAL doctor...
GOOD LUCK
2006-12-12 13:13:39 · answer #9 · answered by dr more 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry.... I competely understand what you're going through. My fiance and I have been trying for a year and no luck either. I think about babies 40% of the time. My sister has a baby and she's 15 and not stable, don't have a job and not to mention the baby's father is not in the picture. I do wonder Why not me. I want to have a baby so bad. Try not to think about so much. Maybe you're doing exactly what i'm doing," Trying too hard." Hope you become pregnant soon... Remember my name Dade County and keep me posted whenever your egg has finally been fertilized and has implanted.
Best of luck to you...
Remember don't try so hard...
2006-12-12 13:42:04 · answer #10 · answered by Dade County 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are trying to hard. Don't try. Just enjoy sex again. We weren't trying with our second and third baby's and they just kinda surprised us. I also say... take another test in a week or so. The symptoms you list are what I had... but I was about 20 DPO before a test showed up negative. Good luck ... Baby dust for you!!!
2006-12-12 13:12:32 · answer #11 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋