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Marry the right person. Pure and simple. Then marriage doesn't feel like a chore, something that you have to maintain. My husband and I are so in love that we don't even have to work at it. :) May you find the same blessing in your life.

2006-12-12 13:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by April 3 · 0 0

Both people need to give 100% of their effort to the marriage. That way if one person cannot give his full amount, there is still plenty of effort from the other person.

Communication is the key to a happy marriage. You must be able to talk about anything and everything that is bothering you. You must feel that your spouse supports you and loves you no matter what happens.

You must always put your marriage above other things. It is more important that going out shopping or playing golf. It is more important than a weekend away with friends. Your family needs to come first in your priorities.

Never, ever let your spouse doubt that you love them very much. Always tell them and show them how much you love them.

2006-12-12 21:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0 0

I think that a great friendship is the key to a relationship. Your partner should be not only your lover, but your best friend. The one you want to share things with first. So, make sure that you always communicate to keep that part going.

Treat your other half as an equal. Not beneath you and give them the respect that you would want to be given in return.

Marriage is a partnership, and to many people loose sight of the fact that it's not all about one or the other, but changing with each other, and making compromises. And, of course, a great sex life :)

Good luck to you!

2006-12-12 21:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by GreenEyedLou 2 · 0 0

Live your marriage life as though you are celebrating your honey moon every day. Don't stop going on dates, writing notes to each other, or IM a nice thoughtful gesture, cards, flowers, help clean, babysit. Basically, let your spouse know that you appreciate them in every way. Love never fails, it always gets stronger. Just keep the fire burning. keep God at the center of your life.

2006-12-12 21:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by beloved 2 · 0 0

communication , And then honesty and trust.
If you lack any of these, there will be many arguments, fights, negative assumptions, which will lead to brief separations, and then divorce.

You must communicate so you both know what is wrong, what you want. For example, my spouse thought I didnt want to be with her anymore, when I very much did. She thought that because I came home late everynight and didnt see her ever. I did that because I thought she didnt love me anymore, when she very much did. We never talked about what was bothering us, and only assumed things, which lead to infidelity, and then separation. When it was finally too late, and after infidelity, we finally talked about it, and realized we both should have just talked about it, and avoided the whole mess. Communication is the best thing.

2006-12-12 21:23:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You need to treat your spouse with respect, admiration, affection, pride, show interest in their life, learn not to bicker but to resolve issues, never call names or have nasty arguments, enjoy time in the bedroom, and continue to pursue interesting hobbies together.

2006-12-12 21:04:36 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0 0

Don't be selfish and hope you with someone that is not selfish.
The rest has to work out -- Since the marrige must come first!

2006-12-12 21:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Always say good morning
Always say I love you as many times a day as you possibly can
Always kiss goodnight
and never never go to bed angry

When apart...make sure he / she has your heart.

2006-12-12 21:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by Smiling Belle 2 · 0 0

above all honesty is the key with honesty comes trust and respect always remember you never know how much time you have with your loved one life is short live it to its fullest never go to bed angry

2006-12-12 21:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by alilswt 3 · 0 0

Very easy, DONT CHEAT ON YOUR WIFE communicate, communicate, communicate

2006-12-12 21:06:52 · answer #10 · answered by monreve_2000 3 · 0 0

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