My friends and i hug each other, and hold hands and waists. But we never kiss or watever. And now people think i'm a lesbian, What should I do?
2006-12-12 12:58:23 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well Honey, you know you are not a lesbian and you shouldn't care what other people think. They are just plain ignorant because they don't understand your "straight" love for your buddies. Don't worry, be happy, and hug one of your friends for me!
2006-12-12 13:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by HAPPY <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how that is. When I was in highschool, someone started rumors that my best friend and I were lesbians. In college, somehow it followed us, but it is more because some people like to think that if two girls are good friends, they are lovers. Unfortunately there isn't much you can do about it. Getting mad at people who say you are only makes it worse, but so does ignoring it completely. You're in a double bind if you ask me. What worked best for us was being nonchallant about it and trying not to give them any reason to think it anymore. Maybe cut down on hand holding, although hugs are perfectly acceptable, lol.
2006-12-12 13:02:35 · answer #2 · answered by Dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your problem, my friend and I are presidents of the Gay Straight Alliance at my high school and while she is bisexual, I am not. I'm straight but since I hang out with a lot of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgendered friends of mine people automatically assume that I myself am gay. I don't care, I simply make sure that everyone knows I have a girlfriend, and if I'm single I make sure that girls know I'm available. Casually bring up how hot some guy is, make sure people know you're straight, word gets around.
2006-12-12 13:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by gsa_adan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is well known that girls have stronger relationships with their friends than guys do. They feel that they love them without having sexual feelings toward them. Hugging is normal, not sure about the hand holding.
2006-12-12 13:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by doris_38133 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH BOY!.....well so what if you hug and hold eachothers waist who gives a s**t what other ppl think as long as your hanging out with your friends and having fun! tell them to shut up and mind their own business!!! and tell them that your not a lezbo. and just keep hanging out with your friends thats what i would do! hope o helped you
2006-12-12 13:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by Amy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a friend thing, If they call you a lesbian ingore it, then call them racist for being against gays and lesbians, I have alot of BI friends, it does'nt mean I'm BI. And when ever some one calls me Bi-Sexual for hanging with some of my best buds, I either slap them, Ignore them, or say ''omg you know my secret'' just to make them stop. I'm not gonna stop hanging out with my Bi-Sexual friends just cause other people use it to taunt me, its being racist and you should'nt really care about what they say, as long as you have your friends.
2006-12-12 13:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by chaotickitty507 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what other people think? The people who say things like that are the jealous ones who don't have any close friends.
2006-12-12 13:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are always going to be mean. Just correct them everytime they mention it. Don't get mad becuase that will just make it more fun for them. You know the truth and that is all that really matters. Give it some time it will blow over.
2006-12-12 13:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by Tiffa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the idiots who talk smack about you! They are just jealous cause they don't have a good friend who will hug them!
Nobody wants to hug an Idiot! Tell them that! lol
Good Luck, hun.
2006-12-12 13:00:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do the same thing! lol no one has told me that I am a les. lol Hey but for fun you try to go around and be all like holding your friend like you would a boyfriend and act like you are dating in front of someone who says you are a les.
2006-12-12 13:01:19 · answer #10 · answered by Juice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋