I am not an especially jealous individual, but she has hidden stuff about her online conversations twice, and recently I read some pretty flirtacious comments posted from her. I am actually a very trusting individual, but enough is enough. How should I handle this?
2006-12-12 12:49:40 · 17 answers · asked by Johnny B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you should talk to her, once you do she should know that she DID do wrong and should tell you she is sorry. I would have her get rid of the way she was communicating with her MALE FRIENDS. You should really know in your heart how she feels about you. I always go by my heart and Im in same situation..... I LOVE my hubby very very much and NO MAN NO ONE can ever take his place I talked to him, canceled myspace membership and let him know I LOVE HIM will all my heart that I didnt mean any harm or anything negative like cheating and NEVER have EVER thought about ever going that direction. Anyway, I hope you two can work it out and like I said you should know in your heart that YOU TRUELY LOVE HER AND SHE TRUELY LOVES YOU!!!! Its something you can feel and you know what Im talking about I hope!
She should have never put herself in that situation EVER and realize that she could lose something that is very important to her. If she knows whats best ITS YOU!!!!
GOOD LUCK (((binky boo)))
2006-12-13 04:49:26 · answer #1 · answered by â?¥á?¦á?¦â?¥ CRISSY â?¥á?¦á?¦â?¥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of had the same issue with my husband a couple of months ago. I found an old high school guy friend (nothing other then a friend) on another website (which I will not name). We started chatting online and he told me that he was coming home for a weekend and that we should get together for lunch. He knew that I was happily married and I thought nothing of agreeing to meet. When I told my husband about it, he flipped! He said that there was no reason why I needed to meet up with the friend and then went on to rag me about, "Going out with your boyfriend," after I told him that I didn't care what he said, I was going. Met my friend, had a nice lunch and conversation, and proceeded to come home to my husband for an afternoon of "us time." Since this first meeting, I have gotten together with my friend with my husband. Hubby now knows that he has nothing to worry about and actually said that we'd have to do it again when my friend is back in town.
If your wife just wants to reconnect with her old male friend, don't worry. If you trust her enough and believe in your marriage you have nothing to worry about. Do voice your concerns to her and maybe try to do something with the friend and both of you.
2006-12-12 14:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by McNulty25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't email my ex, but we do see each other occasionally around town. I have told my husband every time I see him and when we speak. I don't have an insecure husband. So it doesn't bother him, and I think if we did email now and then that wouldn't be a problem either. I have no feelings for my ex, after all I chit canned his a$$. We were together 9 long hard years, and his kids and family were important to me, I like knowing how they are doing. After all I did care about him once, I admit I enjoy chatting now and then, I don't seek him out. I am very happy in my relationship with my husband, I'd be insane to f*ck that up. I'm smarter than that.
2016-03-13 06:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that if she want to "reconnect" that she can do it with you as a couple. These men should know she is married and if she reconnects, she should do it with you because it is inappropriate for a woman to hang out or speak with a man alone (you are man and know exactly what is going through their heads). If she hid her conversations knowing they were flirtatious, she obviously knows that it is inappropriate. Put your foot down about the internet chats and get counseling if you think it is necessary. I am a woman and believe me, flirty chats are affair waiting to happen.
2006-12-12 12:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by Ann Ducketts 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have a serious talk with her. As long as you are not doing it, she shouldn't either. There is no reason to want to "hook up" with old male Internet friends. Are you guys having marital trouble and is she thinking about cheating? These are the hard questions you need to ask yourself.
2006-12-12 12:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should stop her before it's too late 'cos online relationships can be developed into affairs. U need to tell your wife that u cannot tolerate what she's doing right now and ask how she would feel if you were doing the same (flirting with female friends online). If she says u can do the same, it may signal the end of your relationship with her 'cos it shows she cherish the relationships with her online friends more.
2006-12-12 15:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by Bui Bui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand a few things about my soon to be ex-wife:
A) She wants to get laid by someone other than me.
B) She has no respect for the marriage if these online conversations come first
C) She lies and hides
D) I better get checked for STD's
It's really that simple --
--- and you are worried about being jealous --
--- these are the REAL things that should make you real JEALOUS FOOL. shE HAS YOU WRAPPED!
2006-12-12 13:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you trust your wife? If you do. there should'nt be any concern about a little flirting online...Now ,if for some reason you dont, then i suggest you talk to her and tell her its bothering you a great deal and you would appreciate it, if she stops her online flirting!
2006-12-12 12:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would cancel the internet account and get rid of the computer.
2006-12-12 12:51:39 · answer #9 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may possible that yr wife is using internet for her fantacies which she can go through in life
it may be limit to only online things
2006-12-12 12:52:47 · answer #10 · answered by YahooAnswersProfile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋