theres this girl she used to be my friend until we got in an argument and ended our friendship now today and yesterday when i passed down our highschool hallway she called out b ***** enough for me to hear i just walked what do i do shes so immature if she has a problem with me and if she thinks im a b---- then she should just say it to my face but what do i do?! im not to the point where i want to beat her up but im getting there
2006-12-12 12:47:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
im a freshman shes a sophmore should i talk back or what?? i dont think this is going to end
2006-12-12 12:48:35 · update #1
if i tell her if you have a problem with me blah blah blah will she come to my face and say it? since all this time shes been talking **** behind my back and starting rumors would she really have the guts to go up to me and slap me
2006-12-12 12:53:11 · update #2
shes npt my friend anymore and i know why we got into a fight
2006-12-12 12:55:31 · update #3
you have your friends hold her still and you give her a new smashing haircut all for free.
2006-12-12 12:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by nodumgys 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
gurl let me tell u something I been there all through highs school n friends come n go. Yes true enough she is immature and she wasnt really ur friend anyway if she's going around calln u a b****. Yes u may be feeling that u might be close to kicking her a$$ but she aint worth no one is. And if I know highschool like i know highschool this little situation will pass soon enough. You may even go back to talking to this person when all this blows over thats ur choice, just remember keep doing you and f@ck the rest is what I like to tell people << also remember highschool doesnt last forever just hang in there >>
2006-12-12 20:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by Selestia K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone cool to hang out with that doesn't act like a B****.
Obviously there is some reason that you guys aren't friends anymore, (a guy maybe), and for that you just go on. Put a big fat black period at the end of the friendship and move on. B- is just a word, garbage language, so don't let it offend you. She is the one that looks stupid muttering B- all the time. Plus always remember this, if the truth hurts, it should.
2006-12-12 20:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by menunblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has happened to me before. you be the bigger person and act like she didnt say anything. i know that is going to be hard and all with your anger, but trust me you dont want to get into a fight about something so silly. if she does call you it to your face, just tell her that "your still on that, it was like forever ago, i moved on and you should too" then walk away. she will probably forget about it anyways, just try not to let your anget get the best of you. good luck!
2006-12-12 20:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by JennyJen91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is oviouse that you shouldnt do anything one because she is older, two because you should be sooo much more than her. dont say anything and just pass by and dont look at her but let her know that you dont like her talking about you. just make sure you have more class than her and dont get into a fight bacause fights are like being in the special olympics. even if you win your still retarded so fights are dumb because eather way both of you will get in trouble!
2006-12-12 20:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by helper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your concerns indicate to me that you are not a b*****.
The behaviour or reaction of this other girl is something that you don't like? Maybe hate?
Me too!!
If you do beat her up, or even react the same way as her,
you have turned into something you hate.(which is this girls actions)
Rise above this and do not lower yourself by turning into something YOU don't like!
Its weird, it is very hard to know who or what we are'
But through the actions of others, we can see what were not!
I wish you many good freinds in life.
Good luck and bestwishes. Az.
2006-12-12 21:13:36 · answer #6 · answered by spacəmɐn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her. As long as she thinks it bothers you, she will keep it up. But if you don't react and just ignore her, eventually those she hangs with will begin to wonder if she has a problem and will leave her alone.
Besides, you know you aren't what she calls you, and that's more important than anything else.
2006-12-12 20:52:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say this the next time she calls you something loud enough for you to hear it:
________ (name) let me talk to you for a sec...why do you think im a ______ cuz i bet whatever the reason is it is probably dumb....im sick and tired of you making your snobby little remarks that have no effect on the way i feel...you are just stuck on the fact that we are not friends anymore, so get over it!
2006-12-12 20:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by hannah.Horrible! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um.
same sort of problem i had.
so.the girl is a total b****??.
i'd ask her what her problem was and if she had somethin to say.to say it to my face up front.
most girls are too scared to do it.
they talk but cant act.
i dont think you should talk about her behind her back 'cause that would be totally hyprocritical but i think you definetly shouldn't take anything else from this girl.
2006-12-12 20:55:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
now dont go getting into violence that will just get you into trouble. i would maybe try talking to her or writing her a note. If things get so bad you can take it up with a parent or counselor.
2006-12-12 20:50:19 · answer #10 · answered by bebe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her, 'If you have a problem with me and you think I am a ***** you should have the courage to tell me to my face.' Then ignore her.
2006-12-12 20:49:38 · answer #11 · answered by probablestars 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋