There's a woman that I chat with regularly online for the past 2+ years now. I love & respect her. She's amazing! She's old enough to be my mom even.
Over time I have found myself growing more fond of our friendship. Recently I realized that I look up to this person as the mother that I never had. I want to tell her how much she means to me. She does not know about my parents being dead since I was young or how I feel, etc. since I'm a pretty private person. I want to tell her but I keep chickening out since I get all emotional just thinking about it.
Since Xmas is here I'm thinking of adding a letter w/her gift expressing my thoughts & feelings and just pouring out my heart & soul into it. Would now be an appropriate time for that? I want to explain to her about my past that she doesn't know about & how I look up to her again, as a 2nd mother in my life even if we've never met.
This is what I want to do but I'm afraid of scaring her in the process. What should I do?
2006-12-12 12:44:57 · 4 answers · asked by Aurora R 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you have the right idea. I don't think you'll scare her. If you guys have been talking for two years I think she would be happy to know how you feel. Happy Holidays
2006-12-12 12:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by vcheney84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a gift with a note thanking her for being there for you and being the mother you never had. If she wants to know more and she probably will, get into the details then.
2006-12-12 12:48:00 · answer #2 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-30 08:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by bruss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That am sure would be an honor to her. I would be honored by that. I love to help kids. They are so beautiful. And in this day and age it is so hard for them. Congrads to you and her,. She sounds like one incredible woman. And you an incredible young man. Nice to have met you. And to have heard about her.
2006-12-12 13:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋