Ok so my boyfriend and I were together for almost 2 years and he broke up with me 7 months ago and I still miss him. He dumped me for a girl who lives 3 hours away and she is 15 and he is 17. Ive had a few boyfriends but none that I really liked. I would like to talk to my ex but when we broke up he said he wanted nothing to do with me and that hurt me really bad. So Im afraid to talk to him because of what he said back then. We havent talked since we broke up. Do you think there is a chance, like that quote that is talking about letting something go that you love and if it comes back then its meant to be or should I just completely give up. We oscassionally look at each other at school..but I dont know what to do. I feel like I will never get over this. Will I?? As much as I want to talk to him I just feel like he doesnt want to talk to me and If he doesnt want me back I dont want him 2 think that I still like him or am pathetic and still waiting for him.
2006-12-12 12:42:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Its probably best you just let go. This is the path he chose, let him walk it. I'm guessing you are still in High School, you still have a lot of time to find your true love, and he probably wasn't it.
2006-12-12 12:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by foolofone 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up on believing honey, that quote is true. If he really loves you he will come back. I have to tell you bf's are really confussing but thats what comes with the teritory. Naturally you look at each other in the hall you were in a relationship so each time you look at each other a memory of when you were together pops into your head. If its not true love and he doesn't come back then yes you will get over it you will find your "night in shining aromr" just hold your head high and look as if your out to conquer the world. As for the talking part i think if he wants to talk he will come to you and tell you that he wants to.
2006-12-12 12:58:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi dear,
Move on... life is beautiful. You are still in school so just have fun.. ups and downs keep coming in life this is just the begining...this boy said that he wants nothing to do with you right than why do you want anything to do with him. Forget him he is not worth it. Girl the most important thing is self respect in life, you have to keep your head up and high and ignore him even in school. Let him realise what a looser he was to have left you. The problem is unless you dont let go of him you will not feel interested in anyone else. So just let go of him.
There is always a special someone, somewhere waiting for you...you just have to wait and keep your eyes open. Some one might just knock your door.
Good Luck Girl...
2006-12-12 17:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're still waiting for him, but i wouldn't say you're pathetic, just hurt. you probably invested more feelings in that relationship than he did- and if he dumped you for a younger girl maybe he's not that serious and he has no idea what he wants. the best thing is to stop thinking about him, i know it's difficult, but it won't lead you anywhere. try to find something to do- a hobby or something- and think that he made you suffer, maybe if you think about his negative parts it will be easier to forget. time heals wounds if you just let it do so.
better not try to talk to him, if he wanted this he would let you know somehow, but what's gone is gone and it's useless to cry over the spilled milk...
2006-12-12 15:17:31 · answer #4 · answered by monica06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so incredibly close with your vintage quote... "If you love something set it free, if come back to you, it was meant to be".
The only way you can be friends(or more) again is to stop worrying about it. He will pay more attention to you only if you pay LESS attention to him. My guess is that you talk about this with people and he probably gets word now and then that you are still interested in being friends and that you are concerned about what he thinks.
The best thing you can do is to stop talking about him, or trying to look at him. Once he thinks that you are moving on, he will start coming around to see how he still influences you. Its just human nature, no one wants to believe that they were that easy to get over. Try it, and you'll see.
2006-12-12 12:53:14 · answer #5 · answered by John N 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No dear, you must forget him.....you are too young..........and the reason his thoughts linger in you cause u look at him everyday...as you finish school and go further in your studies you will meet much better and interesting people..........keep that in mind.........think there is a person waiting for you..........some day you will find him.....but never forget to make right a choice......take your time.....think and decide else you will regret later.
2006-12-12 14:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by experienced 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have answers in Ur question --- U'll find Ur way. and that boy will not be on Ur way. but U might become the best friends and whole life is ahead for U! ...
have U had realations with a girl? ...
2006-12-12 13:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
But, you ARE pathetic and waiting for him. Go out and have fun, think or do something else to occupy your time. See what happens. But I wouldn't count on it, sorry.
2006-12-12 12:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get over it & move on ...
Sometimes it just comes back years & years later no matter how happy you are then. .. But you just have to get over it try wiping it out.
Unfortunately we are not born with an "Eraser" to wipe off what we don't want to remember..We deal with it.
2006-12-12 16:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by yahoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him and try to meet new guys that r probably worth it.
remember that he isnt the only guy in the hole entire world
2006-12-12 12:52:15 · answer #10 · answered by Edith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋