an intimate make out session with another guy (not my boyfriend) ?
I hope you all can be honest and open-minded with me. I have a boyfriend and plan not to leave him. However, we get way too comfortable with each other and that there is very little excitement in out relationship. Another guy is someone I know. I am very physically attracted to him. Last week I've made out with him just for a very short time, but I got freaked out. Now' I've been obsessed over this idea--and I mean I have thought a lot about it. He is just someone I know and that every time I see him, this is all I think about. I haven't thought about sex yet, only making out.
Should I?
2006-12-12 12:36:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
If you are asking then there must be some question in your mind if it is the right thing to do or not...it sounds like you are going through a down period with your guy...do you see a relationship in the long run with your boyfriend? If you are having thoughts of wandering then that is a sign that something is wrong...just imagine that you are in a marriage with this guy and feeling this way..that would be a miserable feeling...
If you want to do it then that is up to you really hon. It all depends on how commited you are to your guy and if that relationship is really what you want in the long run...as you well know the physical excitement wears off..you have to have other things such as a great friendship to carry you through...good luck!
2006-12-12 12:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ok first how long have you been with your BF? If you are already bored that isn't a good sign. Second if you were to leave your BF for this guy is it the sort of thing that is going to last and do you want it to? Are you just feeling this way because you are bored or do you really want to take it further with this guy? Does he want to take it further with you? Are you young or is it do or die in relationship time because your bio clock is ticking away lol. If you are young and have your life ahead of you go for it but dont do it behind the BFs back. That isn't fair to him. You need to decide and be a big girl about it. Good luck and I hope you post back what your decision was I would like to know how it turns out :)
2006-12-12 20:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have to think about it, then there must be something wrong with your relationship with your bf. Why don't you break up with your bf first - just to give each other time and space to think about whether you still belong together? After that, feel free to do whatever you want.
2006-12-12 20:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by Bubuchachum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your relationship with your b/f more exciting. It does take two to make it happen. Don't leave it up to him to make the sparks fly all the time. Do something spontaneous with him too.
2006-12-12 20:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by Im_tired 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to be attracted to other people when in a relationshipship. The test is how we let these thoughts manifest themselves. That's the difference with those who cheat and those that dont. I say dont!
2006-12-12 20:51:11 · answer #5 · answered by Flumma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as your with your boyfriend no you shouldn't do anything with this guy...make excitement in your relationship don't go looking for it somewhere eles.
2006-12-12 20:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by Karra E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! NO! NO!!! one thing leads to another, and how will you feel when you get caught? discuss your comfortability issues with your b/f, and come up with some new stuff!
2006-12-12 20:40:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you should not. if you feel you need to do that get rid of your boy friend. what would you do if the tables were turned. i hope you do the right thing and come clean!
2006-12-12 20:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by nakita 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you was my g/f and i found out that you cheated on me..well i WOULD be looking for another and HONEST g/f
2006-12-12 20:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by nas88car300 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If are going to do this, break up with your boyfriend. If you are not going to stay committed, you shouldn't have a boyfriend.
2006-12-12 20:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by Glenn N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋