2006-12-12 11:54:30 · 40 answers · asked by kathynala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The proper grieving time is the amount you need to move on. There is no set time limit or boundry. Sometimes, people think they are SUPPOSED to be sad or depressed for a long time. The truth is, we move on. If you are ready, go for it!
2006-12-12 12:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sera B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can really answer that. I went through the same thing over 10 years ago, I thought I was ready and made a lot of mistakes in the way of finding the right relationships. Give yourself some time to properly grieve. I am very sorry for your loss.
2006-12-12 11:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by Issym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your loss.
My father passed away 22 years ago. I was 10
My mother dated a few men but she waited until I was 15.
It really depends on you. Noone can tell you when you are done grieving. I actually believe that you never do stop. 22 years later and I still think of my dad and miss him. I am sure my mom does as well. Just take your time . You will now when you are ready don't let anyone tell you different.
Good luck.
2006-12-12 12:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by 6474 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you need at least 6 months to a year to settle down into your new life. Once you are ready, then go ahead and start dating. Some people are ready in 3 months and others take 3 years. It will be up to you. I don't advise jumping into the dating game too soon. Family members have a tendency to get upset if you do.
2006-12-12 11:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you my friend are the only one that knows how long its going to take you to move on. You will probably never get over the loss of loosing your husband of 25 years thats a long time and even though he died you have to move on. You have to keep living your life. if you are ready to begin dating then you go right ahead. No one can tell you how long you should grieve because even if you move on tomorrow you will still grieve for your husband even if you dont move on you will grieve for him the rest of your life he was the love of your life and you will never forget all the special times and memories that you have of him. but you have to go on living. Move on when YOU are ready . good luck and i'm so sorry about the loss of your husband.
2006-12-12 12:19:06 · answer #5 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time will tell and from the sound of it you seem ready. just you asking that question sounds like you are thinking about it already but your afraid of people's reaction. There are no rules, no guidelines and no definite answer to this. When it feels right to you. Getting out and talking to new people helps with your grief and if you can find a companion in the process well good for you. Do what feels right to you.
So sorry for your loss but remember that you still have the right to happiness and finding someone else does not mean you love your husband any less.
2006-12-12 12:09:20 · answer #6 · answered by me2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, there is no true etiquette for proper grieving time. You have to go with your heart. Start off as friends first with someone before you jump in, that's about the only advice I can give you. Good luck. I'm so sorry for your loss.
2006-12-12 14:18:50 · answer #7 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are ready and have someone waiting if you have to ask. I'd keep it from his family if he had any for a while though, they are liable to be pissed, 6 months is not very long considering you'd been together 25 yrs. Me, I think it's a little disrespectful knowing how fast 6 months goes by. It suggests this guy has been around a lot longer than that
2006-12-12 12:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss.
Proper grieving time??
I don't know if you can put a time limit
on the healing of your heart.
I'm sure there is some silly rule book
somewhere, with all those proper
do's and don'ts...
But I think it is totally up to you and how
willing you are to move on.
You might be surprised when you try,
the dating scene has really changed a lot.
Everything seems to move so much faster.
Good Luck and God Bless.
Happy Holidays............................
2006-12-12 12:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on when you feel ready most of the women or men wait from 6 months to a year, but some never dddate anyone. But if you feel right, go out and have fun by yourself first so you can scope the scene then start dating. But if you just need to chat or have someone to listen to you just e-mail me or IM me anytime.
2006-12-12 11:58:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋