If your spouse massages their co-workers? Or hug the opposite sex right in front of you? What do you think
2006-12-12 11:54:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband would have a lot of explaining to do!!!
2006-12-12 11:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Massage their co-workers? Hmmm, that's something you should look into if he is doing it a lot and what type of massage. What's wrong with hugs? Or does he just like to give a tight "squeeze" to all his female co-workers, that would be different.
Either way, TALK TO HIM about it and let him know how you feel. Put some "spice" in your sex life and get his mind off of othe women.
2006-12-12 20:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by nowhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone is touchy feelie. Someone needs to keep his hands to himself. Not appropriate at all. (concerning the co-workers)
A brief hug of the opposite sex that is a close friend of the family...not so much a problem. Still one must draw a line.
2006-12-12 20:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The massage thing would be a BIG no no. I would tell him it is unacceptable. The hugging thing..if it is just a friendly hug, I don't see that as wrong. My hubby and I hug other people all the time, that's just the way we are and it isn't sexual or anything out of line. I guess it depends on HOW he hugs...HTH
2006-12-12 20:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by PennyPickles17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just must be a hugger huh? Does he hug everyone? I love to hug everyone and I am not cheating. Text message or email? Opposite sex? If only the opposite sex, maybe I would worry
2006-12-12 20:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its strange, a hug not so much if its a long time friend but a massage is way out of line
2006-12-12 19:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by jordanfamily45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tolerate a hug - a friendly hug. But, massage? No.
2006-12-12 20:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Massage is unacceptable but a hug is okay
2006-12-12 19:56:55 · answer #8 · answered by Merrily 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why he is hugging her if it is a friendly hello hug,it's OK.The massage part is strange,and very inconsiderate of you.
2006-12-13 23:06:02 · answer #9 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad. He is disrespecting you. His co-workers should not even let him touch her. You guys need to talk to a counselor together becuase that is not right.
2006-12-12 19:57:21 · answer #10 · answered by Reghan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some peopleee are very touchy feely. I am one of those people. If your spouse is anything like me, then it means nothing for you to worry about.
On the other hand........
2006-12-12 20:05:52 · answer #11 · answered by sterlingentertainmentgroup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋