i am a married man my coworker is single with a boyfreind this morning before work we went to breakfast. later during the day she told her boyfreind and he went nuts calling her a cheater she was devasted. i love my wife, who has no problem with me going to breakfast with a freind even if it is female. question, am i and my coworker wrong and can men and women truly be friends
2006-12-12 11:54:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes i do believe men and women can be friends. in fact most of my friends are male and i'm a married woman. I dont think you did anything wrong at all. i think your a good guy and you have a very good wife for trusting you and not jumping to conclusions just cause you have a girl that is just a friend. for your friend she needs to dump her controlling boyfriend she can go out to eat with whomever she chooses he ought to feel lucky that she even told him she could have kept it to herself. he sounds like a real pig.
2006-12-12 12:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, dont sense undesirable. you've a good to be upset. you want to inform him that you've self belief he wouldnt cheat on you even with the undeniable fact that the actual incontrovertible reality that he is going out with yet another female on my own makes you ver uncomfortable. per chance you need to ask to fulfill her and also you need to all visit lunch, purely to be certain what type of individual she is. If she seems slutty or shady and doesnt aspect out any spouse, i'd out the breaks on your boyfriend and her little chats. If she surely sounds like an ok female, tell your boyfriend that it truly is okay in the adventure that they communicate artwork or existence once and a lengthy time period yet no longer overdue at nighttime and definately no longer hiding something from you, using the undeniable fact that's the worst area. the actual incontrovertible reality that he's not telling you about their conversations supplies you a good to be suspicious and he needs to comprehend that and provide you a touch extra appreciate. perhaps you need to ask him how he would sense in case your positions were reversed? i wish you artwork issues out, Brittany(:
2016-11-25 23:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it you two carpool or something like that. I don't think anything is wrong, my husband goes to lunch with single co-workers often. Doesn't bother me. Lunch does not equal sex.
Men and women can be friends. I go to the gym and then lunch with a single male friend on M W F. Am I having sex with him? Good Lord NO! (My brain just rebelled at the thought of it)
I think her boyfriend is just insecure.
2006-12-12 12:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your wife has no problem with you meeting someone that's between the two of you. Obviously it is not ok with her boyfriend. You don't know the history of their personal relationship so there are probably factors that you are not aware of. It's best to just step back on that. Find someone else to share a meal with - maybe your wife?
2006-12-12 12:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you definately crossed the line married ppl do not have the right to act like they are single and that is what you are doing dude. you are acting single and so is your co worker. I do not blame her b/f for being upset he had every right to be upset. I would be upset if anyone I loved told me that they went to breakfast ,lunch ,dinner what have you with a single co worker. good luck and god bless and happy holidays.
2006-12-12 12:18:15 · answer #5 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry, but you crossed the line dude...married people should not be going places with single people of the opposite sex. its a situation that should be avoided at all costs. the only exception to this rule would be if this single friend of yours was a friend of yours BEFORE you got married, certainly NOT as a co-worker. as for the boyfriend, his jealously smells of guilt!
2006-12-12 12:00:17 · answer #6 · answered by cott 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your coworker is wrong.
Wrong for dating such a possesive and jealous man.
The thing is though.
If you read enough of these you wil see that many...many...many people cheat and use, it was just lunch or we were just talking as excuses.
2006-12-12 12:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you were wrong at all. As long as your wife doesn't have a problem. Sounds like her boyfriend has security issues.
2006-12-12 12:06:17 · answer #8 · answered by vcheney84 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No problem at all. The boyfriend is a usless idiot. She should dump him
2006-12-12 22:01:59 · answer #9 · answered by Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can happen and does!! The boyfriend has the issues!!
2006-12-12 12:05:59 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋