Say, you have a boyfriend, girlfriend or in marriage.
You see this attractive girls/ guys (pick a gender,) do you still lust over than person even though you are in a relationship? If so, do you act upon what you have in mind, or it's just a thought?
If so you have self control, what do you do to keep it high not to act upon it?
2006-12-12 11:39:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Oh yes, and yes, self control is needed. This is normal to find someone attractive. Just cause I'm married I'm not dead! I don't act upon it out of respect.
2006-12-12 11:43:09 · answer #1 · answered by flower 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this is not uncommon to experience like this - no matter if you DO in elementary words opt for to stay pals. only remind your self why both of you're literally not mutually anymore, and do not ignore that the in elementary words contact that could want to ever ensue is for causes relating for your daughter(s). this is nice to be pals with someone you've been once with, yet in case you comprehend you'll finally end up having those emotions for them back (and also you comprehend that it gained't finally end up good from previous journey), then this is more advantageous suited only to stay pals. in case you truly do not imagine you'll have any self administration, do exactly not associate your self with him (except you actual haven't any decision).
2016-11-30 12:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by brenneman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok to crush on someone, not obsessively, just think that they're cute or hot or whatever, but don't act upon it. that's cheating. having been cheated on in the past, i know it's not a nice feeling, something i wouldn't wish upon anyone.
2006-12-12 11:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 15 years and looking is always nice but I wouldn't want anyone other than my husband - he has me and I him we may look but it only helps us appreciate each other more.
2006-12-12 11:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have alot of self control.
2006-12-12 11:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by Judas Rabbi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cant control it. I just masturbate more
2006-12-12 11:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't, and I'd like to keep it that way.
2006-12-12 11:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by Evil Atheist Cannibal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's just say... i can keep my stick in my pants...
2006-12-12 11:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i just say the hell with it
do with me what you must
2006-12-12 11:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by BIG JOHN 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋