2006-12-12 11:34:47 · 37 answers · asked by FOOTBALL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
cheat on his fucccccen *** if he cheattted on u
2006-12-12 12:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by ........... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL YOU CAN BE MAD BUT SINCE YOU WERE CHEATING ON HER THEN SHE PROBABLY FOUND OUT AND SHES MAYBE TRYING TO MAKE YOU JELOUS BECAUSE SHE STILL LOVES YOU BUT YOU CHEATING ON HER WAS PROBABLY A REALLY BAD MISTAKE. I WOULD THINK BEFORE YOU DO THAT AGAIN.TELL YUOR WIFE OR WHOEVER SHE IS THAT YOU WERE CHEATING ON HER AND THAT YOUR SORRY AND YOU WONT EVER DO IT AGAIN AND THEN SHELL FORGIVE YOU HOPEFULLY AND YOU GUYS WILL STAY A HAPPY COUPLE BUT FIRST DOES YOUR OTHER GF KNOW THAT U WERE CHEATING ON HER AND THAT U WERE MARRIED CUZ IF SHE DOESNT YOU HAVE TWO PROBLEMS ON YOUR SIDE.NOW STOP BEING SO REDICULOUS AND BREAK UP WITH YOUR NOT REALLY WIFE KEEP YOUR WIFE NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND YOU NEED SOME SENCE KNOCKED INTO YOU MR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-12 11:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by Monica I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you both have severe "issues" and need some serious counseling! How can you be angry at her for doing the same thing you are doing?
Marriage should be based on mutual love and respect. Turning outside your marriage for any reason is wrong and doesn't solve anything. Unless you both get some outside help with your problems, your "marriage" has little chance of survival.
Obviously you are both immature and incapable of committing to your partner. Rather than ask yourself if you should be "mad", I think the correct question should be, "should you be married"!
2006-12-12 11:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL...LOL...you are real funny....what you are really saying is that you have been cheating and you figured that your wife hadn't found out yet but by a strange coincidence you found out that your wife was cheating also. LOL LOL LOL I'm sorry but that's funny because your wife got the last laugh.Why do you think she is cheating? ANSWER.....Because she already knew!!! STUPID...Life's funny how it comes right back atcha....what wicked webs we weave....To answer your question...yes! you should get mad..BUT...not with your wife! Be Mad at yourself!
2006-12-12 11:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by shuggabhugga05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can happen but they really have no right to get mad when they are a cheater them self. Sorry but some men want it all. Some women to. ONE+ONE =TWO (1+2=3 2+2=4===stupid)
2006-12-12 11:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you are cheating on your wife and you suspect she's cheating on you. Guess neither of you are too good at vows, huh? Hope you didn't say them in a church before God. Frankly, the one of you who cheated first started the ball rolling, so that person is the one who needs to apologize first and ask for marital counseling to try to save your very shaky marriage.
2006-12-12 11:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is done in the dark shall be brought to the light!
Two wrongs don't make it right. Do I need to keep going here?
Look fella, don't be a hypocrite, you're no better than she so both of you stop it right now, kiss and make up. There is something missing that you both giving to others and not to each other. Trust me, been there, done that and fortunately we are still together. Save your marriage!
2006-12-12 11:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by Boopalicious Chica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, they do say "tit for tat", I'd hope that I'd be decent enough to at least try to put myself in my spouses shoes first to determine whether or not I'd care less if they mucked around on me. More than likely tho I'd really have no right to be upset about something I myself was doing, unless I had the "do as I say and not as I do" attitude which in my books has absolutely no relevance.
2006-12-12 11:45:15 · answer #8 · answered by dustiiart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee sit down communicate. Make it an officail open relationship since up to now it's be an open relationship without it being official. Remember what's good for the goose if better for the gander.
2006-12-12 11:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how funny is that? You are cheating and you want to get mad at your spouse for doing the same thing...you are both ridiculous!!! Either get a divorce or get marriage therapy...no one has the right to be pissed!!!!
shame on both of you for doing what you have done...shame..shame...shame!!!
2006-12-12 12:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
two wrongs dont make a right. What goes around comes around so......
i wouldnt get mad cause i wouldnt cheat on my spouse but i would be devestated if he cheated on me.
2006-12-12 11:47:20 · answer #11 · answered by me2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋