Knowing that he's married, not knowing is totally different
Why?
2006-12-12 11:25:14 · 31 answers · asked by IceQueen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not married yet, so dont jump to conclusions I just want to know why?? I recently saw the ***** that was responsible for ending my parents marriage, I was ready to cuss her out, but I just gave her a real dirty look..
2006-12-12 11:48:36 · update #1
I don't!
2006-12-12 11:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by Holly Ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women like to have what isn't available. Others like the romantic idea of not being able to really have what they want. When I ws single and a married man made a move, Isaid something like this "look Frank, you don't want to have an affair with me, first it will be so hot hot hot you will be in another land , then you will love my cooking, my nature, my caring ways, and next thing you know you will be so smitten with me you will be careless. Then your wife will find out. Maybe I would tell her, love is strange. Then she will file for divorce, take half your stuff, the kids will see you on weekends, you will move to an apartment, she will live in the house with the kids. You will be the sinlge idiot that sits at the bar to eat your dinner. Oh ya, where will I be? I don' t want to hook up permanently with a guy who cheats!!
Remember that boat? May as well kiss that goodbye, where you going to store it? In your garage? Think again, you live in an apartment. Don't forget to send the child support payment. DId you say three kids? Almost two thousand dollars a month should cover it.
SInce you have the kids one week day, it will fall on a day most unlucky for you. IT will be a night that the boss expects you to work late, you either have to pay a sitter or beg your wife to watch the kids, and guess what she may have dinner plans with some young hot man!!
2006-12-12 19:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by Valerie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Danielle before l answer your question l have a couple of things l want to say !! To brewbeer2, not all women are liars, you obviously have not found the right one yet, can't imagine WHY with your attitude !! As for you redhotcutiegirl, you certainly don't sound too cute to me, you sound like a little teasing scumbag and you should be ashamed of yourself, GROW UP !!! Now back to the question sorry !! The only married man l mess with is my husband. I guess if you didn't know it would be different but the minute l found out he was married , he wouldn't see me for dust !! I would run like the wind and never look back. I believe in treating others as l would like to be treated and believe me being cheated on is the most hurtful thing you can do to a husband / wife. It should never happen !!!!!!!
2006-12-12 19:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Years ago I did. Why? Because, it served my purposes at the time. I didn't want anything serious and neither did they. Yes, it was wrong, but at the time I didn't care. However, I will say this. Every married man I bedded prior to anything "unforgivable" happening I reminded them that they were married. Only ONE stopped and went home. That man was honorable, the others...if it hadn't been with me it would have been with someone else.
This was when I was young. I'm different now. Things happen, people change. In my case it was for the better. My husband knows my past, and accepts it for what it was. Stupidity.
2006-12-12 19:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I would never mess with a married man. I am married myself and I take my marriage vows seriously. I would never put my husband through that. In addition to that, I would never break apart the vows between a man and his wife. Messing with a married man is selfish. It's way women try to boost their self-esteem when really they are just sloppy seconds. They don't get the love they desire and they reck homes. I have no respect for women that mess with married men and I don't respect men that mess around with women when they are married.
2006-12-12 19:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by Ann Ducketts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married and I'd never cheat on my husband. and I don't understand home wreckers either. I'm really sorry about your parents marriage ending because of one of these nasty women, and I think you handled yourself like a perfect lady by not saying a word to her when you saw her. it takes a lot more strengh and a lot more class to not say a word. so you should be really proud of yourself.
I think a lot of women and men who are home wreckers are just out to see if they can destroy someones marriage. I don't necessarily think it's because they think they love that person, it's more about the challenge of taking something that's not yours. or stealing something that doesn't belong to you. they do it just to see if they can. and that's really sad. people who do that have no respect for themselves, the person they're cheating with, or that person's spouse. and it will all come back to bite them in the behind sooner or later!
take care of yourself, and I'm proud of you for being a lady and doing the right thing.
2006-12-12 20:38:01 · answer #6 · answered by atiana 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't know someone is married then you are not doing anything wrong, if you know he is married then yes you are doing something wrong. I have dated 1 married guy , I refuse to date anyone that is married again, why? simple the only persont hat gets hurt is me. Men are pigs, that is just the way it is. They don't want to give up their wives, for a new girl, because they are basicallyusing her for the things his wife can not give. I was used by him in my eyes, made me promises he could not keep and I always felt like I was on the back burner. I suggest go find someone who is single. why put yourself in the middle of something with BAD written all over it. why is it different? put yourself in the shoes of the wife and them ask yourself that again.
2006-12-12 19:45:02 · answer #7 · answered by sweetsandy81671 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, there are still women out there who don't care about a man's "marital status"! I think some women actually enjoy going after married men.
I'm married, but I wouldn't consider going out with a married man. However, I once dated a guy without knowing he was married. I was a senior in high school and it never occurred to me he might be married. However, as soon as he told me, I dumped him. That was the last time I saw him!
2006-12-12 19:34:28 · answer #8 · answered by Mugsy's Place 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If there are women on here (like redhotb****) that like messing with a married man, then they like being sideline ho's. And if they find out that he's married and still continue, they still a sideline ho and a homwrecking be-yotch. They need to try and get their own d*** man and see how they would feel if some other woman pushed up on him. They'll understand where a married woman is coming from.
And I wasn't talking about you. Your question is asking "are there any women on here" and I was responding to any woman that admits to messing with a married man. Which you see that one does. So don't jump to conclusion.
2006-12-12 19:48:22 · answer #9 · answered by Ms.CuteCaDiva 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The only married man I mess with is my husband. And if some woman ever tried to get involved in my relationship she better be a fast runner because when if I caught her I'd strangle her with my bare hands! People who try and get in someone else's relationship are not only just disgusting people they are pathetic.
2006-12-12 19:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are lots of them and if another women came into my marriage or even tried, I would absolutley destroy her mentally and physically. I am sure there are other women out there who would do the same, so that is messing with dangerous territory. You think men can be evil. Well women can be even more when it comes to their family and husband.
2006-12-12 19:29:53 · answer #11 · answered by Maizy * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋