My best friend has all of a sudden gotten really annoying! She is standing up for my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend because she doesn't know our pom routine for school. I'm not the only person who thinks my bf's ex just isn't cutting it, but my bestfriend is standing up for her. What should I do?
2006-12-12 11:24:47 · 8 answers · asked by REA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
confront your friend in an environment where she feels comfortable to talk to you. don't be rude about how you talk to her, though, and try to refrain from yelling. also, keeping tears out of the mix can be helpful. i recently had some best friend troubles, but we worked it out and now we're completely fine. just be kind and non-accusatory.
2006-12-12 11:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by HansonFan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was your best friend's choice to stand up for her. It seems like she made a poor choice that hurt you, so tell her that her standing up for your bf's ex wasn't necessary. If she's really that bad, she'll get cut. It's as simple as that. Try not to be annoyed. You best friend can't be your sidekick all the time. Sometimes, we all have different opinions, and even if they clash, we just suck it up and move on.
-hitzusen
2006-12-12 11:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by hitzusen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut her some slack. Your best friend sounds like a nice person.
2006-12-12 11:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to be nice to ur bf's ex and u need to tell your homegurl waht is up and dont call her annoying. Just belike u got my back or what?
2006-12-12 11:38:28 · answer #4 · answered by julia l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many times a lady like that's purely attempting to electrify you! attempt to no longer be the chief and let her make the various judgements. I wager that once a lengthy time period once you somewhat educate her that you want her purely the way she is she will stumble on the thanks to be herself round you! immediately purely attempt to be a lot less of a frontrunner and extra of a follower and attempt to allow her imagine of options on her own! good luck! :)
2016-11-25 23:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by estremera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u say she's you r best friend then do what best friend's do talk to her and tell her how u feel trust me been there done that
2006-12-12 11:32:16 · answer #6 · answered by vicky v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur friend is telling u something
2006-12-12 11:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by Bluehoodie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make new friends
2006-12-12 11:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by Fatman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋