can be open and honest, but I feel numb and detached. I don't know if I will ever feel interested in or capable of getting into another relationship. Where to go from here?
2006-12-12 11:05:05 · 4 answers · asked by Tat Twam Asi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Personally I would rather have my cat then some of the people that are in my life. If you are happy with your life don't worry so much about another relationship if/when you are ready it will find you.
2006-12-12 11:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get out and celebrate your single-hood. You are a complete person and don't need to be part of a couple to satisfy the rest of the world.
Do all the things you have wanted to do but never had time. Learn to paint, draw, write poetry. Take classes for no reason other than you want to learn more on that subject. Spend a lot of time in the library selecting books to read with your cat. Join special interest groups to learn more about astronomy, genealogy, wine tasting, etc.
2006-12-12 12:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe beening or getting married is not the thing for you at this time. Enjoy your life with your friends. Have a lady friend or two on the side just for friends where you can enjoy going out to a movie or any kinda sport thing. If thats not the case then go with the guys get into some hobbie with them. Life is two short to worrie. Life goes on. It is hard if you lost your family but you need to go on. One thing don't share alot of your personal life with others as people ten to walk away as it brings them down. Be happy and cheerful. give your life time but don't rush into any kind of relationship as the sore is still fresh..you just need to enjoy what you have . Get a motorbike and go riding around the country. As my hubby and i have one and the freedom is so great.
2006-12-12 11:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by Spice M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are. My parents died before I was17yrs old. I had sister and brothers but after my mom died they all moved away. I had no body but a boyfriend who lived in orange county and I lived i LA I lived in different places. I manger to go to school and pay rent and food with social sec. checks left from my parents. That numb feeling you feel is loneliness. I went to church. I found a really good one called Clevey chapel . You need to feel your spirit it needs to be waken up again. Right now its close with hurt and bitter and you need God. Hey you can drink alot or do other things but your still going to feel numb, if you go that way. Only God can help you. Its OK to be mad with God because he took your family away. I know I was. But God bought me down to my knees. Please find a good church and read the new testament. Go to a Christan book store. You need to help yourself. You have to do it.
2006-12-12 11:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋