Ok..I really like a friend of mine..we are practically bestfriends..he kinda acts like he likes me but i am not sure. We talk a lot and stuff and we just kinda go together kinda like salt and pepper..i am not trying to sound crazy..it is just that i like him a lot and he thinks that i only like him as a friend? Should I tell him that I like him and possibly have a bestfriend as a b/f or should i just be great friends with him? Once again..I really really like him and I am not 100% sure that he likes me like that..I kinda think so,but....
So if you could help me out here..it would be a BIG help...thanks a lot!
2006-12-12 11:04:41 · 8 answers · asked by Caitlyn B 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
hey hun, i think you should be honest with him and mention that you have feeling for him, more than a friend. And see what he has to say in return, also mention if he doesnt feel the same way...that you dont want to ruin a great friendship and no hard feelings.
2006-12-12 15:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say just play it cool and stuff and just drop a few hints every once awhile but not too much though...if he asks you about it just say something like "I do like you more than a friend but i know it will never happen so why try......unless you feel the same way about me" and if responds "No, I just want to be friends" then so there isn't no awkwardness tell him, "See, I told you it was pointless to even try...o-well...at least were friends and that's all what counts!" You don't have to say exactly that but it was something to get you started with... oh! and don't just straight up ask him cause if you do then there is a chance you might even lose him as just a friend too...
2006-12-12 19:10:20 · answer #2 · answered by megan_trigg2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly how you feel, just like you did right now. If you guys are as close as you think you are than even if he doesn't like you; you can still be good friends. And if you do go out, even if it's awkward at first it could still work out. If it doesn't work out than you can always stay great friends. this happened to me with my friend, we aren't dating anymore but we are still great friends and always will be.
2006-12-12 19:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he ever talk about other girls to you ? what you got to think about is would you ruin a great friendship. think about it carefully ! when you talk do you talk about every thing or is there things your both to shy to go there. how does he look at you. think really hard about it. me and my partner meet 4 yrs ago and was just friends at first until one day i was like you so i thought about it long and hard. did a few tests ha ha. i got my answer and we still together.
2006-12-12 19:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by puss n boots 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask him if he likes u more than a friend and if he says no say neither do i but if he says yeah say me too.
Just tryin' 2 help
Hope it works out!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-12 19:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by Inxlovex123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like him maybe
he likes you.
2006-12-12 19:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by Meg or fish(but i like meg more) 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him out and see where it goes!
2006-12-12 19:07:50 · answer #7 · answered by Camisado 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
give him some
2006-12-12 20:11:45 · answer #8 · answered by blank 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋