2006-12-12 10:59:25 · 15 answers · asked by bilalhamza2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Love comes before marriage.How can you marry someone that you don't love??Well I mean in some cases that is true.But that's marrying the person to use them.Not to love them.Love becomes before marriage in order for it to be a successful marriage.
2006-12-12 11:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think, if there is chemistry on both sides when you first meet love will grow. A friend of mine got married six weeks after she met her man and both are still happily married after 17 years. It's ok if you both feel that strong for each other but, I'm not too sure how many honest people are around these days who are willing to a life time commitment. Good luck anyway. Hope it will work for you.
2006-12-12 11:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by BFCP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love and care for the person you're about to marry because you wouldn't be marrying them if you didn't. But I also know that that love you have intensifies when you've been together for a longer period of time, you've endured a lot of trials and heartache together, and grown to know each other more. So in some part I do understand what you're saying. My mom used to say that too.
2006-12-12 11:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe this to an extent. Absolute true love will come after you are married. But you still can be in love before getting married, and even without being married. It differs for everyone.
2006-12-12 14:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't believe that. Love grows after marriage but it should be obvious before marriage too.
2006-12-12 12:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to chance divorce? Marriage is a bond based on love.
2006-12-12 11:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by Randa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you believe that love comes after marriage.
I think that could be true depending on the circumstances of the marriage.
In the USA however, that belief is probably not true.
2006-12-12 11:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually people I have known have been in love before they got married.
2006-12-12 11:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by taljalea 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, I got married at a young age just to get out of the house. I found love at the age of 33.
2006-12-12 11:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Not necessarily. I know many people who are in love and not married. It happens. Legal boundaries do not create love.
2006-12-12 11:01:54 · answer #10 · answered by Gwendolin B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋