2006-12-12 10:51:47 · 37 answers · asked by baby boo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When you to married you made vows to one another, just because she broke hers does not mean it is ok for you to do the same...I call that revenge cheating. It can lead to a cycle of you cheat so I cheat and before you know it, you will both be cheating time after time to get even. I think if you forgive your wife, you should forget about cheating on her and work towards fixing your marriage. If you do not trust her maybe it would be better to end the marriage; trust in one of the most important elements in a marriage.
2006-12-12 10:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by Shining Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid two wrongs don't make it right for you to do the same. If you all want to sleep around why did you marriage each other? If you are going to forgive then you need to bury it in the past and leave it in the grave. If you can't forgive her then you have a biblical right to leave her and marry someone that will be faithful to you. Sinning always feel good at the time but it has a very bad after taste that can be detramental to your relationship. Love endures all things, if you love her have a conversation with her about what going on. It is a reason why she is cheating you need to find out what it is, so you can resolve this problem if you are going this route. Be careful condoms break and you can get diseases from oral sex. God bless you
2006-12-12 11:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by tellthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, let me say that you're an incredible man if you've never cheated, my x boyfriend has and I'd kill for a guy who could remain faithful..Your wife is very selfish and you deserve someone better..
If there are no kids involved please try to find a woman that will value you, you have no right to be treated like this..Cheating on her with another woman will not make you feel better. I've been there and trust me, the pain will still remain..
However, not everyone is the same..If you think that will make you feel better..Do it..She will have no right to ***** and yell at you..But in my opinion, you should leave her and let the universe (karma) deal with her, trust me, she will get whats coming..You wont have to do a thing..
There are tons of women out there just looking to commit. You get out there and find one of them..Your wife will realize what she had, and feel dumb because by then it will be too late..
Good Luck
2006-12-12 11:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by IceQueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a commitment entered into by two people that want to share there lives together. If you both want an open relationship than that is something that you both must discuss openly and honestly. But two wrongs does not make a right. Being in a relationship that is tit for tat and an eye for an eye is not very loving, and is compromising your relationship. You are setting yourself up for failure. If you feel that you can not communicate and express your disappoinment in your wife's infidelity. Maybe it is time to consider getting a divorce or remained married with infidelity and you both seeing who you want but doesn't that defeat the purpose of marriage?
2006-12-12 11:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by lizzy tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, No, No! Do you want to drag yourself down to her level? She's a cheater, and do you want to be a cheater too? You deserve so much better than that. If she's having sex with another men then it shows she doesn't value her commitment to you. Also you should talk to her about WHY is she cheating and try to see if you can work things out..but if shes not honest and cheats again then you should divorce her. She could be carrying home something you don't want.
2006-12-12 11:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right, especially something this messed up. Although, if both of you are willing to stoop down to that level then you're perfect for eachother. Or you could just get a divorce and have one night stands, because this obviously isn't a real relationship wedding ring or not.
2006-12-12 10:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by Love_Forever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me tell you 2 wrongs don't make a right.If you have children I would strongly object to you cheating to get even it would not be a good teaching thing for your children.My ex wifes parents did that and now both girls are cheaters and not real good people.I think thats where they learned because they learn from what they see.If you are single though throw her out and find a good woman.
2006-12-12 10:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right baby boo. Your relationship is in deep trouble, but I think you already know that. You both need some help or a divorce. There's no respect in your marriage so why continue to hurt each other? Obviously she isn't in love with you if she treats you this way. Why do you continue to stay?
2006-12-12 11:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Again?? Did you think she wasn't going to cheat from apparently the last time she cheated?? In my opinion it would be alright for you to cheat but I would also consider a thing called "DIVORCE".
2006-12-12 10:55:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 wrongs do not make at right.
You shouldn't be thinking about cheating. You should be thinking about moving on, marriage counselor or time a part. Cheating will not change what she did. She did not respect you. Respect yourself.
If your marriage doesn't work, you will find someone else and what will she think about you cheating?
2006-12-12 11:17:58 · answer #10 · answered by bug822 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋