Just curious my ex is now str8..I was wondering is it possible to be cured of being gay?By da way I am not str8.
2006-12-12 10:51:03 · 23 answers · asked by Charmer 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
While most people will say that a gay person cannot turn straight, they will also say that it may be possible for a straight man to become gay at any point in his life. (Remember Brokeback Mountain).
Many straight persons can be put into situations where they will turn to gay sex. (example men in prison) When they get back into a normal lifestyle they often find that they are still interested in a little gay sex on the side.
There are also organizations, like Exodus International, that claim that they have helped hundreds, if not thousands, of gays go straight through the help of their faith in God.
http://www.exodus-international.org/
So, what it ends up with is that anything is possible. If someone decides to leave the gay lifestyle and go straight, then just wish them well. No doubt they will face struggles. At some future date, they may ask for your help. Next time you see her, just remind her that you'll always be there to help.
2006-12-12 11:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no 'cure'. People don't always fit into easy to understand categories. Some people may have never 'really' been gay in the first place, some people naturally change, some don't, some get stuck in the middle and all areas in between. Who knows what your ex's deal is.
2006-12-12 10:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by Pico 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but that means they weren't gay in the first place. I'm not gay, and I don't know where being homosexual comes from. But there here so be nice to them. THERE IS NOT CURE! ITS NOT A DISEASE! They are still human beings. If being gay is a "sin" in the bible. Then can't they just repent or confess their sins?
2006-12-12 13:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by Donovan G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't stop beng who you were born to be. We've all heard of so called "miracles" where gay people were taught the word of god and decided to give up their life of sin,blah,blah,blah. It's all a load of bs. Calling it "cured" sounds like it's a disease, there is nothingwrong with being gay.
Bottom line, either your ex was pretending to gay or is now pretending to be straight. Everyone should just be who they are. Be real. Gay, Bisexual, Straight, etc it's all love.
2006-12-12 11:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by Manx 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You cannot turn straight. You can't get a completely straight man to touch another man sexually, you can't get a completely gay man to touch a woman.
Or better yet, you can't get me to touch a guy.
You cannot turn homosexuals into heterosexuals. From what I've read they've even tried brainwashing people into a heterosexual lifestyle. The result? Massive brain damage and confusion. Not pretty.
You can't change who you are, you can hide it and run away from it, but that leads to an unhappy life. Accept who you are and be proud. Confident people are hot in their own way. ;)
2006-12-12 10:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 04:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by ridinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably bi. Or could have gone back into the closet. It could also be that she was only "experimenting" and wasn't sure of herself before but now she knows that she does not like being with a girl and that she is straight.
2006-12-12 10:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by Sui Generis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can not be cured form something that is not a disease. You can choose to live in denial or also you could be bisexual and have phases where you are more attracted to one than the other.
2006-12-12 10:56:39 · answer #8 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you could choose to be gay, then you could choose to be straight as well. Everyone who is straight and says gay people chose to be gay, must have chosen to be straight, according to their logic.
In reality, no one can choose to be gay or straight. You are or you aren't. And if your ex "changed" then I'd say they're either very confused, or lied one way or the other.
2006-12-12 10:56:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont call it a cure, being gay or lesbian is not a disease. And if someone wishes to be straight after being gay thats up to them. Its their choice to be either.
Freedom, man, gotta love it.
2006-12-12 10:55:43 · answer #10 · answered by xsupergirl245x 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋