I'm 15, I'll be 16 in a few months and I think I'm pregnant. My parents wont let me see my b/f any more. They also don't know that I think I am. I'm going at the end of this week to take a test while I'm with my b/f. He's all there no matter what. He's scared to. We don't know what to think or do. We know that if I am we will keep it. We also know that it'll be hard, but we can do it. I don't know how to tell my parents that I might be having a baby with the guy that I love and the same one who they hate!
2006-12-12 10:49:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
First, personally, wait to see if your positive. Don't scare your parents if there is no need since your going this week. If your not, please use some type of protection until at least you finish school. Raising kids is very, very hard. Your life will be totally consumed by your child. I'm a mother of 3, had one child when I was 17 and had two more children after I finished school and went to college. Raising my oldest was very tough, financially and emotionally. And it is still tough with my younger ones as they demand my constant attention. But financially it is much better. Once you find out, you will need to tell your parents if you plan on keeping the baby. If you can't do it face to face, a letter does help as you can express yourself completely without being interrupted in their opinions or concerns. Good luck to you in which ever way the test turns out. If I could go back and do it again, I would have waited for all 3.
2006-12-12 10:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by flower 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, I was 15 the first time I got a positive pregnancy test. It hard and if you think they will try and make you have an abortion, they cant. And no, dont put the baby up fo adoption, if you want the baby and can care for it, do. The best place for a baby is it mother. All I can tell you is that I told my mom when I was like 7 weeks and she was by my side the whole time. Sadly I lost my baby at 11 weeks and my mom cried more than I did. Its best that you tell her now, but if nothing else, get prenatel care. You can get pregnancy mediciad and thaat pays for everything, of go to your local health dept. they usually give prenatel check-ups for free. If you can take care of your baby, do it, its the best thing you could ever do. I had a healthy baby girl at 17 and another at 19 and its the best thing I ever done was being a mommy. Best of luck to you and take care of your self and your baby (maybe)
2006-12-12 11:36:05 · answer #2 · answered by kristin h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, honey, you made a HUGE mistake. You're only 15, and this "love" you and your boyfriend have is nothing but puppylove. Sure right now things seem very hopeful and wonderful, but when you've got a child put into the picture, especially at this age, things get really complicated and tough. You barely are old enough to take care of yourself, how do you think you can take care of a baby for the rest of his life? All I say is you better hope that pregnancy test comes out negative.
2006-12-12 11:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-03 16:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by mcguinn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that you are 16..i have seen a lot of overwhelmed teenage moms with kids they thought they were ready to have..will you be prepared to do this 24/7 and maybe on your own? you may think that as far as love goes, this is it..there will be no other but honey, from experience itself, i know its not true! As for the baby, remember, there are no shifts when it comes to diaper changes, feeding, soothing a crying baby, doctors appointments, playing with the child, taking care of yourself and so on and believe me, it just goes on.all day and all night!.i am not trying to discourage you but I really think that you should focus on your school and your future, and gradually build it up to a point where you will be ready for that huge job! Good luck whatever you decide!
2006-12-12 10:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by mkgjeo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my parents called the cops on my boyfriend 3 times and he went to jail twice.. they put a tress-passing ticket on him.. Well basically they hate his guts. I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 18. They didn't let me see him so I moved in with my real mom over the summer and got pregnant.. It is basically the hardest time of my life..If you need any help then e-mail me on Jill71691@yahoo.com
2006-12-12 10:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure they are alone with you and it is not spur of the moment. Tell them now and let them know you are going to have it checked out. Good decision to keep the baby if you are pregnant. You will be scared, but try to learn a lesson. By the way, abortion is murder. At least your b/f is sticking with you.
2006-12-12 10:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by joshatgrace 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm so sorry about your parents, but ya, get a test and take it. If it says you are pregnant you really should tell your parents. It sounds as if you've got a good guy with you, even if your parents hate him. Trust me I know how that one goes (I'm 15 also) Just relax and hopefully everything will turn out alright.
~Melissa
p.s. if you are pregnant CONGRATS
2006-12-12 10:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by himnbamluvr 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You're 15 and you think you're ready to be a parent.
You need much more help than you can ever get online.
Contact Planned Parenthood (they'll be in the phonebook) and get help. You obviously have NO idea what you're in for.
2006-12-12 11:00:01 · answer #9 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you think you are tell me when you had sex and when your last period was and if you have a normal period cycle. I also can help you better if you tell me the symptoms you are having
2006-12-12 10:53:01 · answer #10 · answered by mommy of 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋