im in love with someone i like and make feel good.im older than him and also married.i want to finish my mariage relation but i am afraid
2006-12-12 10:39:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes when your not married already and all the love is to your husband
2006-12-12 10:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there nothing wrong with being in love and you should already know that I mean wasn't you in love with your husband before you married him. So being in love is not the issues here it's bout you cheating and dating a younger man. Keep it real. Cheating is wrong and even though 70% of the world do it it's still not right. Now dating a younger man now that's not a problem if he's not a minor. You know under the age 18. But if you don't want your husband I hope it's not because of the other guy. Leaving someone for someone else is never a good thing. It should be for problems in the marriage only.
2006-12-12 10:55:02 · answer #2 · answered by mnmpeices 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is fun to be in love. It feels good to be in love, but it is pretty stupid. also, unfortunately it is temporary. You say and do some of the stupidest things you'll ever do and say because of it. Things like "will you marry me?" and "I do."
Been there, done that. Being in love is for suckers. I'd rather be "in-like" with a lot of different people. Screw jealousy, commitment, and all the other bullshit that comes with being in-love. Especially the part where in the beginning everything you say and do is perfect and later down the road everything you say and do is wrong.
I'm sure you were "in love" with your hubby before you found this new fool that makes you want to break things off... because your hubby just doesn't do it for you anymore, right? Crazy @ss *****. Thank you. You are the perfect example of why men should never marry.
2006-12-12 10:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in infatuation, love is sticking it out with your other half even when you feel the way you do right now. After all, there will always be people like that off and on in your life. Are you going to leave the next one too? Think about it.
2006-12-12 10:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by mandie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes is good but sometimes u must sacrifice the love u have if u care for another person. being married andjust devorce is not easy or right but if feel that what u have doesnt make u happy or ur partner then just stop it and make the choise u want and feel better...but first u must b ready for the consiquences...R U?
2006-12-12 10:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is good to be in love. What is not good, is the fact that ur married.Find out what is wrong in ur relationship b4 u break his heart. If u have a conscience it will b 1 of the biggest decisions in ur life.
2006-12-12 11:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in love yes, with someone else, no. you may not be happy in your own marriage and thats why you think that you are inlove with this guy. you are looking for an escape. however, if you actually try with your marriage it may be a different story. I learned one thing in college about marriage. Its like a rollercoaster. one minute you are inlove, the next you feel like you are agreat friends and thats it, then you hate them and want out. you feel like there is no love there. Then you feel like you appreaciate them, and so on and so on. all marriages are like this. they go through different stages. be aware and remember why you got married in the first place.
2006-12-12 10:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by kellieghr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well there is a difference between "falling in love" and "love" both can be nice.. when it is returned.. falling in love is sometimes "better" because u are blind and in ur case u might fell in love with ur partner years ago and right now u miss the feeling to be in love thats why u want to split.. u shouldnt.. because u will never learn that love is different..
2006-12-12 10:45:24 · answer #8 · answered by Lemi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you need to end your marriage or the relationship with the other guy.Things can get ugly if you're having a relationship with someone other than your husband.
2006-12-12 10:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u have kids if u do do not get seperated but if u dont its all right well its not that good but just talk to the guy and be friends instead of losing ur husband and ur kids if u have any i rather be friends than losing everything i have hope it works out sweetie
2006-12-12 10:43:20 · answer #10 · answered by baby girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i recommend doing it 2-3 times a year
2006-12-12 10:55:07 · answer #11 · answered by gatewlkr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋