I AM TIRED OF IT! I AM TIRED OF IT! I AM TIRED OF IT! EVERY DAY I KEEP GETTING PICKED ON BY PEOPLE AT SCHOOL! TODAY I WAS WALKING DOWN THE HALL AND A RANDOM PERSON WHO I NEVER SEEN BEFORE STARTED PUSHING ME ON THE FLOOR. THIS REALLY Is lowering my self esteem and i feel like a sore loser! This really makes me want to start being a asshole and ****** myself and being mean to everyone else and becoming a negative person! SOmetimes i even think about suicide and jumping off my school gym building! I am tired of going to the ocunselors and teachers everytime cause im refreeed to as a "*****". I just dont want to do it. I am really weak and have no muscle so i cant fight back. ALso beacuse I do not wanna be suspended, because I am a good kid. I really do not know what to do! Please help! I hate this! Help me before its too late and I end my own life!
2006-12-12 10:37:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Weak and no muscle, huh? Ever use your book as a weapon? Try smacking him hard in the face with the flat side. Carry a book with you next time you walk down the hall and a punk messes with you. Then show him how HARD education can be.
2006-12-12 10:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by Da Mick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reflect on this - - the REASON that they do these bad things is because they SEE The potential in YOU -- and don't have the PERSONAL STRENGTH that you have to SURVIVE and THRIVE in life ...
These are those with the most fragile egos -- those who chose to NOT put forth effort, but take the easy way out -- and that means trying to bully those around them into giving them everything they want --
DO NOT LET THEM Have it!
It is TIME to get your PARENTS involved -- and yes, they NEED to go directly to the Principal AND the SCHOOL BOARD -- and DEMAND answers to this situation.
PLEASE -- remember -- the ONLY way that your EMOTIONS can be affected is :
IF YOU LET OTHERS RULE your Emotions -- because ...
EMOTIONS come from the HEART - and as long as you have SELF-ESTEEM and SELF-Love -- well ... NOTHING can affect you now or in the future!
CALL a Suicide Hotline if you are feeling down - -they are there to HELP.
And ... let me tell you this -- I was the young girl picked on throughout my school years -- the geeky thick glasses, the teeth needing to be in braces for many years, the old clothes, the older parents, and you know what -- I ENDED up with a FULL Military Career (and RETIRED Honorably), earned my UGRAD and GRAD Degrees along the way, have MY OWN HOME, raised my TWO Disabled Children as a Long-Term Single Parent, and always, and I MEAN ALWAYS was able to make it in this world DESPITE the things that weak-minded others tried to put in my path ...
THAT comes out of SURVIVING and THRIVING in Adversity -- and is a part of HUMAN LIFE ... and Humanity means that you care and treat others with DIGNITY and RESPECT -- and NEVER forget this!
2006-12-12 18:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by sglmom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hear you on that one, I get picked on alot too, but I don't tolerate it because i have a bad temper and i will fight, I aint never scared, the thing that really teeds me off is someone who talks junk about you behind your back, If i have something to say to someone i'll say it in their faces, not being scary, but if you can't fight back, all i can say is that you're going to have to learn too, because u can't always ignore people and most of the time teachers wont listen, i think it's time u try, cause people are gonna talk about u till the day u die, it's bad, but hey.... that's life.
2006-12-12 18:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you nuts?
Want to end your life because of some people who pick on you?
Just relax and take it easy, I know its not that simple as it sounds but just don't do anything in a haste, it will always create a waste.
Dude, I know you are tired of going to the teachers and principal, but if it continues seek your principal or parents help and do not indulge youself in any kind of fights or so.
All the best.
2006-12-12 18:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by kunalsc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to be strong to know how to fight, you have to be smart. When I was a kid I would get this freeze in my stomach from being nervous, so I would back off and try to walk away, only to be known as a whimp, which made it worse. Karate teaches self confidence, concentration, vigilence, patience as well as self defense. Dont keep walking away from sshhiitt, learn to defend yourself so that you dont have to walk away anymore. It's not wrong to fight back! Who knows, one of these kids might even become your friend after a fight.
2006-12-12 18:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by element_op 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of the things I can suggest is getting your parents involved by getting them to stop into school and talk with the counselours.It sounds to me that someone is not doing there job maybe they are afraid of the bullies themselves.If this does not work maybe you could change schools.Because you are young and life is precious and just because someone is bullying you does not make it right to end what we have.Good Luck and Keep you chin up
2006-12-12 18:46:52 · answer #6 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as bad as this may sound, befriend a jock. I was a jock in high school (a long time ago) and a guy who got picked on allot we became friends, we had a lot in common and from that point forward nobody bothered him, in fact he made lots of new friends. we still keep in touch 35 years after high school. he has a nice family and so do I
2006-12-12 18:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by treetown2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Calm down holmes u need to calm down. life isnt over. U need to get some friends. dont shoot for like the mmost popular people. but just stay with agood positive connection with people. anybody u can get to think u as a (kinda sorta) friend is good. ANd dont think about bad ****.life isnt over
2006-12-12 18:42:30 · answer #8 · answered by Ben 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't end your life. They are not worth it. I get picked on at school too. But you are stronger than you think you are, and they see you have potential so they want to ruin that. Time get your parents involved...........seriously. they are not worthy
2006-12-12 18:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by misscoolcat89 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hold on I'm still contemplating an answer from your last poop question.
2006-12-12 18:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋