All the time I worry for something...that might never happen....even though I'm very attractive, smart, good person, I have good moral values....I don't appreciate my self so much...instead I always stay very calm and sad...even when I'm out with friends...I used to be very open and easy going...know i'm so mature, so normal...I just can't get this feeling. What to do to change this attitude? I really don't have a reason to feel sad...exept the fact that I'm single...but there a lot single people who live their lifes...and don't wait someone else to make them happy.
any advice, thanks.
2006-12-12 10:28:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yes you made me feel better...thirty three character..thanks...thanky you all for your answers...keep going...I already feel better :)
2006-12-12 10:52:35 · update #1
You are not invisible to God,
He made you a beautiful person,
And there is someone out there for you,
Don't allow this pain to worsen,
Just have patience with yourself,
As Love is seeking you,
Don't allow sadness to rule your life,
The sky is always blue,
Even if the clouds are grey,
That float over your head,
Even if I sound silly, I hope you smiled at what I said.
2006-12-12 10:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by 35 YEARS OF INTUITION 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like he is not that into you. I hear you say you lack male companionship and I am guessing you may be feeling lonely too. Well know this that while you waste your time on someone who is not interested, the person who would be interested in you is getting away. Let this go, set it free and start looking for another guy who may be as ready as you are at this moment to get into a relationship. And know what.........It is virtually impossible to be just friends with a guy. The sex thing always comes up, it can be sooner rather than later but it will always come up. so don't fool yourself about that. I know I tried many times over the years to be just friends with a guy and the ISSUE always came up. As a matter of fact recently after a twenty year friendship with a guy, it came up, and in the end it ended our friendship because he would not take no for an answer. Try finding a female to hang out with, hey ya never know she may know some guy who is looking too and maybe you will find someone worthwhile dating' Good luck and don't fall for just anyone, respect yourself, love yourself and take care of you.
2016-03-13 06:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is never a viable option! Sometimes it is so easy to place low value on yourself when you are single. It is catch 22. If you feel badly about yourself then others will see you badly therefore remaining single. Feeling badly because you are single! It is a circle!!! I can be the same way! At least you don't have to buy a significant other a X-mas gift! You listed great things about yourself. Refine the things you already have. Find enjoyment out of things you want to know more about. Forget about relationships and it will happen!
2006-12-12 10:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by Care 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just have to reach out to people and stop trying to 'snag' a partner.
The right one will come along sooner than later.
2006-12-12 10:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEFINITION OF APPRECIATE; 1 to recognize or understand that something is valuable, important or as described:
There's no point buying him expensive wines - he doesn't appreciate them.
"Value yourself. The only people who appreciate a doormat are people with dirty shoes.”
Your question is perplexing!
YOU MUST APPRECIATE YOURSELF.
Sounds more like a bout of depression- or insecurity about something. I like reading quotes on particular thoughts and subjects- It helps me see things from another viewpoint.
Good Luck and snap out of it! OK?
2006-12-12 10:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by ••Mott•• 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Appreciate yourself, think positive because you are attractive,
smart, good person with good moral values. What is more you want to be... see the things around you, the beauty... they are
created to make your day, a pleasant one which you need
to appreciate. stop that big negativism in you... and go find your love somewhere. God is there to help you.
2006-12-12 10:49:22 · answer #6 · answered by dodadz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Worry is meditating on your fears. It is unhealthy. Eventually you will manifest the things your meditating on...they will come to pass. To change the way you think you can look at yourself in the mirror and confess positve things like,"I love you, your great" or "I'm happy, healthy, prosperious, and live is worth living".
2006-12-12 10:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by 1bigpane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lonely inside you, try to think you a the lucky one, why see the people in the street, see the people in hunger, see the people that do not have family, see the people that disabilities and no home...You are lucky... visit this side...www.amtb.org.tw and choose english version learn from this site, it will help until the day you left this world.
2006-12-12 10:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by melvinsyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl interrupted 2 ;the saga continues...........
you're just craving for attention,picturing yourself as an emotional
confused human,just learn how to be happy yourself fist,everything else will fall accordingly.........
2006-12-12 12:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by Byzantino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man i just saw a question that was asking if people felt unappreciated.and haha really in my experience people that are kind just get taken advantage of.
2006-12-12 10:39:40 · answer #10 · answered by Moanika 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋