Your ideas about your men not going to strip clubs puzzle me.
We come home, routine as ever. Ask for some off the wall sex (diff room, outside, etc etc) or ask you to show some skin, or do some sexy stuff. Just ravage us when we dont suspect it, or show up at the door naked, or just initiate sex ONCE.
But, NO NO NO NO NO NO NO.
I just want to snuggle tonight. Hear that alot.
It really sucks to hear that all the time. Then women say, to keep him from going do something sexy, or get a pole and show him.
You ladies get mad when the romance is gone, and we get upset when our frisky wife has 100% VANISHED.
I think the women just dont trust ther men or they are insecure with themselves in one way or another because a secure women would have nothing to worry about.
My wife can go to a male strip club any time she chooses, after all,, I am not her father. i am her partner. She is a grown women and if she loves me, then she will respect the trust and come home to me.
2006-12-12 10:24:17 · 11 answers · asked by scott in minnesota 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would let my man go to a stirp club but I am pretty crazy in bed and stuff so I dont know if my man would ever want to because you just dont know what is going to happen with me and I love to cuddle but sex always comes first. Good luck in all you do!
2006-12-12 10:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Must just b your chic! I don't mind going to the strip club WITH my man sometimes. I'm secure enough with myself, so why not? We BOTH know there ain't nuttin' them chics can do that I can't do BETTER so why let it cause problems. Even if he doesn't make it to the strip club on an outing, he'll always get his own private little lap dance, pole, dance, strip tease, whatever he wants when he does come home to MAMA!! I haven't had a pole put in the bedroom yet, but I'm workin' on it! (smile) Snuggling is cool sometimes, but I don't always go 2 bed 2 go 2 sleep, ya know what I'm sayin'?! Try and buy your girl some sexy lingerie, or massage oil or other little toys and gifts and see if little gestures like that will help in getting her to be the one 2 initiate sex every once in a while. Maybe with your need 2 go 2 the strip club, you've unknowingly made her feel "less sexy" or unwanted by you. Back off the issue of going out to the titty bar and do what you need to do to get things fixed at home. Good luck to you!!
2006-12-12 10:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First and foremost a husband who loves and respects his wife should have absolutely no desire to lust after another women. You did take a vow to "forsake all others" did you not? Maybe if you showed your wife respect and love and proved to her that you desire to look at no one other then her she would be more receptive to you. No women wants to be grabbed and treated like some piece of meat. Do you show her love, compassion, emotions and feelings without wanting sex or is the only time you pay her attention is when you have an "alternative" motive. I can assure you that the more you desire to look at other women (stripe clubs, porn, ect.......) the less your wife is going to want you to touch her. Stop wanting to commit adultery against your wife by lusting after other women and your wife will be much more loving and affectionate to you.
2006-12-12 10:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by Sally B 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, I don't see a question in there, but I will post this....
We don't want you going to a strip club, drooling over every sleezebag in the joint, and then coming home thinking you're going to get some incredible sex...forget it. Come home from WORK thinking you're going to get some incredible sex.
2006-12-12 14:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, Scott, I'm a VERY strong, confident, secure woman that does not like her husband going to strip clubs! I believe that is disrespecting me. However, if he wants to see skin, skin is what he'll see and anything else he wants to see or do! I'm only to happy to please my man!
2006-12-12 10:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by Pildi 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your sexy wife vanished because you disrespected her. You didn't pay attention to her when she needed you most? That could be the problem. Right? You tell me.
2006-12-12 22:10:22 · answer #6 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree 100 percent!
2006-12-15 12:56:19 · answer #7 · answered by Pink 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it's the trap that is marriage. I don't want you to look or lust after anyone else but I'm not going to do anything to persuade you otherwise. And if you should take matters into your own hands...
I'm taking half.
2006-12-12 10:29:56 · answer #8 · answered by gatewlkr 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I was with you until you got to the part about letting your wife
go to strip clubs....Nope..Not me....Good luck with that idea...
2006-12-12 10:27:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
And whats the ??? Not all women are the same,and mabe you should strip for her....
2006-12-12 10:28:36 · answer #10 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋